1. General

1.1 TheModernMan.com, its owner and representatives will be referred to as "TheModernMan.com", "we" or "our" throughout these terms and conditions ("Terms").

1.2 Access to and use of the website www.TheModernMan.com ("the Website"), its contents and use of all products and services available via the Website or associated products or services ("collectively the "Products") is subject to these Terms.

1.3 Accessing the Website or using the Products indicates that you have read, understood and agree to be bound by the Terms.

1.4 We reserve the right to review and change any of the Terms, without notice, by updating the Terms at our absolute discretion. Any such changes take immediate effect from the date of their publication on this page.

2. Products and Access to the Website

2.1 We shall use reasonable endeavours to provide continuing availability to the Website, but you expressly acknowledge and accept that access to the Website is provided on a temporary basis.

2.2 We reserve the right to, at any time and at our absolute discretion without prior notice to you: a) to temporarily suspend the operations of, or restrict access to, the Website or part thereof for updating, maintenance, upgrading purposes or any other purpose whatsoever that TheModernMan.com deems appropriate; or b) to withdraw or vary any of the content on the Website or available from the Products; or c) to amend the Products without notice; or

2.3 You expressly acknowledge and accept that TheModernMan.com will not be held liable for any loss, liability or damages arising from the unavailability of the Website at any time or for any period or for any service interruptions.

3. Prices, Orders and Payment

3.1 All amounts referred to in these Terms are in US dollars.

3.2 Products will not be shipped or made accessible to you for download unless you pay for them in full.

3.3 All Products to be supplied by us to you are described on the Website.

3.4 You are liable for any and all third party costs that arise in relation to the provision of the Products, including but not limited to, shipping, downloading, server and packaging costs.

3.5 If you do not pay for any Product provided to you, we may engage the services of a debt collection organisation, legal practitioners or other entities to assist us in recovering that debt and add the debt recovery costs to the amount of any outstanding debt.

3.6 No order may be cancelled except with our prior written consent and on terms which will indemnify us against all losses.

4. Delivery

4.1 All products are available for instant download. After purchase, you can also watch/listen to the video/audio products online in your Modern Man account.

4.1 All products you purchase can be downloaded to your phone, tablet or computer. All products play and open on phones, tablets and computers.

5. Refund Policy

5.1 TheModernMan.com offers a full, 30-day money back guarantee on all Products, with the following terms and conditions.

5.2 If you are not satisfied with a Product you have purchased from TheModernMan.com, you may contact us within 30 days of purchasing to request a refund.

5.3. The only product that we ever seem to get the occasional refund request for is Get Your Ex Back: Super System, which is understandable given that not all relationships can be recovered. However, after having our guarantee be taken advantage of by some guys who didn't follow the steps of the ex back program and then asked for money back saying that it didn't work for them, we have had to include the following clause for Get Your Ex Back: Super System.

To request a refund for Get Your Ex Back: Super System, you must at least provide a link to your Facebook or Instagram profile and Dan will then assess whether or not the specific instructions from the program have been followed correctly. If you have completed that step correctly, you will be refunded immediately without any questions. However, if you have not made the specific changes to your Facebook or Instagram account to complete Step 3 of 7 (from Get Your Ex Back: Super System), then any refund request is invalid and will be politely denied. Step 3 of 7 from the system needs to be completed regardless of whether your ex has a Facebook or Instagram profile (i.e. to qualify for a refund, you need to show that you have at least completed up to Step 3 from the system. If you haven't done that, it would be unfair and untrue to say that the system didn't work for you, when you didn't actually go through the process as instructed. When a man follows the ex back process as instructed in the program, he gets his ex woman back. We guarantee that). Note: Stories on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat or other social media sites that have disappeared are not accepted, as they cannot be verified. Screenshots of posts are not accepted; a link to view your profile is required.

Not wanting your ex back is not an accepted reason for a refund. Not having a social media account, or her not using Facebook or social media are also not valid reasons to request a refund and they will be politely denied. The name on your Modern Man account will need to match the name of your Facebook or Instagram profile.

Sometimes it is easy to get an ex back, but sometimes it takes a bit of effort and persistence over days or weeks and even months in some cases. If you are serious about getting her back, you need to have a plan that has been proven to work (i.e. Get Your Ex Back: Super System, which was developed by helping more than 100 phone coaching clients to successfully get their ex back) and you then need to follow through on that plan all the way. Only purchase Get Your Ex Back: Super System if you are serious about getting your ex back and are willing to follow the instructions provided in the program.

5.4. Any other products that are purchased along with, or in addition to Get Your Ex Back Super System are subject to the same terms and conditions mentioned above (i.e. a customer purchasing Get Your Ex Back Super System, as well as other products (e.g. the Ex Back Mastery Pack) to help him understand how to re-attract his ex, get her back and keep the relationship together. Alternatively, purchasing another product shortly before purchasing Get Your Ex Back Super System).

5.5. The money back guarantee does not apply to women who purchase our products, or men who purchase products using a woman's credit card (e.g. mother, sister, wife, grandmother, girlfriend). We provide products for men who want results with women and as a result, the money back guarantee only applies to purchases made by men. Other people are welcome to purchase to get help, but the money back guarantee does not apply to those purchases because we can't guarantee everything in the programs will be applicable.

5.6. We reserve the right to reply and ask questions (i.e. to ascertain why a refund is being requested and if it is fair to The Modern Man, or if the customer may need a different product and therefore be offered an exchange of products, rather than a refund).

5.7. We reserve the right to deny a refund request if it is unfair to TheModernMan.com (e.g. if a customer asks for a refund because he needs the money for other things, if a customer claims to not understand the program because English isn't his native language, if the customer says that he is busy with life so he doesn't have any time for women at the moment, customer says he doesn't have time to go through the product(s), or says that he wasn't intending on learning anything and was just curious to look at the program, customer says he/she accidentally purchased, but then downloaded the program after purchase, which shows that his purchase was intentional and not an accident, customer says he thought the eBook was a video even though it is listed as an eBook, etc).

5.8. The money back guarantee does not apply to anyone who is a self-help, relationship or dating coach of any kind, or someone who is affiliated or involved with anyone who is offering advice to men or women on dating or relationships.

6. Testimonials

6.1 If you elect to submit testimonials to us via the Website in any form, including but not limited to, text audio and video, you expressly acknowledge, accept and agree that you have: a) Submitted that testimonial voluntarily; b) All testimonials submitted to us become the property of TheModernMan.com; c) We may use the testimonials for marketing and other purposes at our absolute discretion; and d) To the maximum extent permitted by law, we are not liable for any claims made by you or any other person arising from or in connection with the use of or truthfulness of any testimonials, including but not limited to, break up of a relationship, loss of employment, loss of money, physical harm, embarrassment, mental harm, death, ostracism.

7. Copyright and Intellectual Property

7.1 TheModernMan.com is the sole proprietor of all intellectual property embodied in or connected to TheModernMan.com, the Website and the Products ("the Intellectual Property").

7.2 The Website, the Products and all its related Products are subject to copyright. All material on the Website is protected by copyright under the laws of Hong Kong and protected internationally under those laws.

7.3 TheModernMan.com retains all rights, title and interest in and to the Website (including all text, graphics, logos, button icons, video images, audio clips, writings and software) and all related content. Nothing you do on or in relation to the Website will transfer any Intellectual Property Rights to you.

7.4 You may store the content supplied by, or accessible from the Website and/or the Products for your personal use only. You are not permitted to use any such content for or in connection with any business or commercial enterprise.

7.5 You are not permitted to broadcast, publish or republish, upload to a third party, transmit, post, show or play in public, distribute or otherwise reproduce in any format, adapt or change, alter, reverse engineer, modify, translate, decompile, disassemble or create derivative works of the Intellectual Property and/or the content supplied by or accessible from the Website and/or the Products without our prior written consent.

7.6 You acknowledge that this condition has permanent effect.

8. Liability & Indemnity

8.1 TheModernMan.com's total liability for any loss, damage or reliance shall be limited to: a) In the case of goods, either replacement of goods, repair of goods, or a refund of the price paid for the goods (as determined by us); b) In the case of services, either supply of the services again or a refund of the price paid for the services (as determined by us).

8.2 All warranties, conditions and representations, whether express or implied (other than express warranties stated by us in writing), are excluded except where the law prohibits exclusion or limitation of liability. To the fullest extent permitted by law, TheModernMan.com is not liable to you for any loss, indirect, special, consequential, general or similar damages arising from or in connection with your use of, testing or reliance on the content supplied by or accessible from the Website and/or the Products, your use of, testing or reliance on any advice provided to you on a 'one-on-one' basis, your accessing, using or transacting on the Website, any negligence by us, or for any claim made against you by any other party.

8.3 You expressly acknowledge and agree that TheModernMan.com, its affiliates, employees, agents, contractors, contributors, third party content providers and licensors are not be liable to you for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, consequential or exemplary damages incurred or suffered by you as a direct or indirect consequence of your accessing, using or transacting on the Website or your use of, testing or reliance of the content available or accessible from the Website or the Products or your use of, testing or reliance on any advice provided to you on a 'one-on-one' basis.

8.4 You expressly acknowledge and agree that to the maximum extent permitted by law, TheModernMan.com is not liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, consequential or any other form of damage incurred or suffered by you as a direct or indirect consequence of you providing any personal information (including but not limited to, your name, address, email address and credit card details). This includes, but is not limited to, loss or damage suffered as a result of spam mail, theft or used for an unauthorised purpose.

8.5 You expressly agree to indemnify, keep indemnified and hold TheModernMan.com harmless from and against any claim brought against TheModernMan.com by a third party resulting from the provision of the Products by TheModernMan.com to you, and in respect of all losses, costs, actions, proceedings, claims, damages, expenses (including reasonable legal costs and expenses) or liabilities whatsoever suffered and howsoever incurred by you as a direct or indirect consequence of your accessing, using or transacting on the Website or your use of or reliance on the content available or accessible from the Website or the Products.

8.6 You expressly agree to indemnify TheModernMan.com in respect of any claim, action, damage, loss, liability, cost, charge, expense, outgoing or payment suffered or incurred by TheModernMan.com, its affiliates, employees, agents, contractors, contributors, third party content providers and licensors (including, but not limited to, economic loss and all legal costs and disbursements on a full indemnity basis) caused by you and/or any willful, illegal or negligent act or omission by you.

9. Breach

If you breach any clause of these Terms or part thereof, TheModernMan.com is entitled to exercise its rights to the full extent of the laws of Hong Kong and to obtain the relief and remedies available to it at law or in equity. This law protects TheModernMan.com worldwide.

10. Dispute Resolution

10.1 If a dispute arises out of or relates to these Terms, except where urgent interlocutory relief is sought, neither party may commence legal proceedings unless: a) The party claiming a dispute has given written notice of the dispute to the other; and b) Both parties endeavour, in good faith, to resolve the dispute expeditiously by any means upon which they mutually agree.

10.2 If the dispute remains unresolved within 30 days after notice has been given under 10.1(a), a mediator will be appointed and the parties will bear the costs associated with the mediation equally.

10.3 If the dispute is not resolved via mediation, either party may institute legal proceedings concerning the subject matter of the dispute.

11. Disclaimer

11.1 You understand and agree that the material accessible and available from the Website and the Products provides informational content about women and dating based on anecdotal experience only. That material is of a general nature only and does not take into account your personal circumstances or needs.

11.2 You acknowledge and agree that use of, testing or reliance on any material, ideas or concepts or content accessible or available from the Website and/or the Products is at your own risk and that you are solely responsible for any consequences of such use or reliance.

11.3 All material accessible or available from the Website and/or the Products, is provided to you "as is" and "as available" without warranty or condition of any kind.

11.4 You understand and agree that any advice that is provided to you that is specific to your personal circumstances (including but not limited to by way of phone coaching, e-mail or one-on-one course participation in seminars or workshops) is based on anecdotal experience only. You further acknowledge and agree that use of, testing or reliance on any such advice is at your own risk and that you are solely responsible for any consequences of such use or reliance.

11.5 Neither TheModernMan.com, nor its affiliates, directors, officers, employees, agents, contributors, third party content providers or licensors make any express or implied representation or warranty about, or shall be liable, in contract, tort (including negligence) or otherwise, for any direct, indirect, special or consequential loss, damages or reliance in connection with the Website, its use, its content, any products or services available from the Website or any of the Products. This includes (but is not restricted to) loss or damage you might suffer as a result of any of the following: a) Participating in any activity in reliance of any material accessible or available from the Website and/or the Products associated with TheModernMan.com (such as, but not limited to: Approaching women, going on dates). b) Failure of performance, error, omission, interruption, deletion, defect, failure to correct defects, delay in operation or transmission, computer virus or other harmful component, loss of data, communication line failure, unlawful third party conduct, or theft, destruction, alteration or unauthorised access to records. c) Costs incurred as a result of you using the Website, and/or any of the Products. d) If any failure to complete a transaction, or any loss arising from e-commerce transacted on the Website. e) For any defamatory, threatening, offensive or unlawful conduct of third parties or publication of any materials relating to or constituting such conduct.

11.6 TheModernMan.com does not exclude or limit the application of any provisions of any statute where to do so would contravene the statute or cause any part of this clause to be void.

12. Severability

If any clause or part of any clause in these Terms is held to be unlawful, invalid, unenforceable or in conflict with any rule of law, statute, ordinance or regulation, it is to be severed so that the validity and enforceability of the remaining provisions are not affected.

13. Whole Agreement

These Terms constitute the entire agreement between the parties and there are no other representations, promises, warranties, covenants or undertakings between the parties that apply to the subject matter of these Terms.

14. Waiver or Variation

14.1 A party's failure or delay to exercise a power or right does not operate as a waiver of that power or right.

14.2 The exercise of a power or right does not preclude: a) its future exercise; or b) the exercise of any other power or right.

14.3 The variation or waiver of a clause or clauses in these Terms or a party's consent to a departure from a clause by another party will be ineffective unless in writing and executed by all relevant parties. (Execution on behalf of TheModernMan.com must is only effective if executed by a director of TheModernMan.com).

14.4 A waiver of a breach or default of any clause in these terms shall not be construed as a waiver of any succeeding breach of the same or any other clause, nor shall delay or omission to exercise or avail oneself of any right from the power or privilege available under these Terms operate as a waiver to any breach or default of these Terms.

15. General

15.1 Headings in these Terms are for convenience only and do not affect the construction of these Terms. Words in the singular also include the plural and vice versa.

15.2 In the event that a provision of these Terms is held to be invalid or unenforceable, that provision will be read down and the remaining provisions of these Terms will remain in full force and effect.

15.3 These Terms are governed by the laws in force in Hong Kong and both parties hereby submit to the exclusive jurisdiction of the Courts of that country.

16. Privacy Policy

It is safe, secure and private to shop at the Website. You can read our privacy policy here.