A man may be able to talk to women he has no interest in dating (e.g. married women, unattractive women), but when in front of a woman he really likes - he usually becomes nervous and can't get her to feel enough attraction for him to want to be his girlfriend. Most women will see him as 'just a friend', or worse - nothing at all.
If he sees a woman he'd like to approach and meet in a shopping mall, at a party, or in a bookstore, he just can't work up the confidence to approach and talk to her. Guys like this will often go for months (even years) without a girlfriend, while other guys (who know how to approach, talk to and attract women in different environments) enjoy endless love, sex and relationships with their ideal types of women.
21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend has been designed so you can quickly find a new a girlfriend, or begin dating and having sex with many new women. This is done by providing you with the techniques (i.e. what to say and do) for approaching women in 21 different situations. When you use the techniques, a woman GLADLY give you her phone number and will be eager to go on a date with you.
How it works
Each of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend is explained individually.
Dan, Ben or Stu provide a real-life story of how they have successfully approached and then began dating a woman by meeting her in the environment being discussed (e.g. shopping mall, bookstore, online dating).
Following the story, Dan, Ben and Stu go into detail and provide you with step-by-step instructions to successfully approach a woman in the particular environment. Instructions include: What to say, how to get her interested, how to get her phone number and how to have her eagerly wanting to go on a date with you…and much more.
What you will learn
Here's a sneak-peek at the great ways to get a girlfriend that you are about to learn:
- Clothing store: Ever seen those beautiful women who work in clothing stores at shopping malls? Now you'll know how to charm these women and get their phone numbers in minutes. Plus, you'll discover the rarely-known secrets to making women like that want to be your girlfriend.
- Classes/Courses: Whether you're doing an adult learning class, or you're still at college – these techniques will make you stand out as the attractive, 'cool' guy. You'll have your choice of the single women there…even if the one you like happens to be teaching the class!
- Speed dating: A lot of guys try speed dating, but have no idea how to talk to the women and get them interested. Using our proven techniques, you'll make such an amazing first impression that women will forget about all the other guys there and just want to date you.
- Online dating: This is definitely where a lot of modern men try to find a date these days. It is a great way to meet women, but most guys write the wrong things on their profile and end up turning women off. Use our techniques and you'll have a bunch of dates in no time.
- Bartender: The hot, female bartender. Seems like a big challenge because she's getting hit on all the time. Yet, like in most cases – guys are doing it all wrong. In this section, you'll discover how to get female bartenders eagerly handing over their phone number to you.
- Waitress: Did you know that many waitresses take the job in the hope of meeting more people, especially a guy? Many waitresses are single and are open to being 'asked out', as long as you do it right. Who knows, the next time you order a latte, it may come with the phone number of a hot, young woman who will be eager to get into the bedroom with you.
- The Gym: There's a lot of 'looking' that goes on at gyms, but most guys don't have the balls (or know how) to approach women in this environment. Use our tested conversation techniques to pick up the hottest women at your gym, without it actually looking like a 'pick up' to the people around you.
- Through Friends: Meeting women through friends is one of the easiest ways, if you know what to say and do. By the way: If you don't have any beautiful, single women in amongst your friends at the moment – don't worry – you'll be making heaps of new friends by using the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend.
- Bookstore: Even though bookstores are a goldmine for single women on their own, most guys don't approach because they don't know how. Say the right words and make the right moves and women will quickly hand their phone number over to you, or join you for coffee right then and there.
- Driving by: If you've ever driven a car before, you will have past many beautiful women that made your head turn and left you wishing you could meet them. The techniques in this section will teach you how to pull the car over, talk to the woman and have her eagerly handing over her phone number in minutes.
- College/University: Many universities have courses for people of all ages. This place is a hotspot for singles and the fact that you have something in common immediately makes it easy to chat. Use our proven techniques for this environment to start dating & having sex with as many women as you desire.
- Bus tour: There are many different types of local and national bus tours available around the world. The one thing is common is this: Single women who want to have fun and are open to being approached and meeting new people. The techniques in this section will make you stand out from all the other guys and get the hottest women on the bus tour.
- While buying lunch: How many times have you seen a beautiful woman behind the counter when buying some food – and wished you could get her phone number? Well, now you can. Your next lunch may just come with a tasty dessert.
- Mixed sports team: Probably one of the easiest ways to meet women, if you know how to establish yourself as one of the 'cool guys'. This not only leads to more dates and sex, but you also make more new friends and improve your lifestyle.
- Cultural events: Whether you want to meet women from your own cultural background, or you feel like it's time to try some women of a different flavor, the techniques in this section will teach you how to get phone numbers, dates and more while attending cultural events in your town/city.
- While on holidays: When women are on holidays, they are way more open to having sex on the first night they meet you, because they will probably be leaving a day or so after – so there's no time to go on dates. Follow our advice while on holidays and you will always have 'a good time' with women you meet.
- Shopping malls: This place is a haven for beautiful women – often out on their own, shopping and trying to look even prettier. Guess what? Most guys never approach in this environment. Use our techniques to sweep women off their feet and have them handing over their phone number in under a minute.
- On a Bus/Train/Plane: Women are often on their own in these environments. Learn the right words to say and how to make women comfortable talking to you and women will be excited to give you their phone number, because women often dream of meeting a guy in a random situation like that.
- House parties: How do you stand out from the crowd in these environments and get the beautiful women interested? It's easy once you know how. Use our proven techniques to score phone numbers, kisses and more at house parties. Plus, learn how to get invited to loads more house parties.
- Receptionist: Most places (e.g. massage parlor, gym, dentist, etc) have female receptionists, but most guys don't know how to go from 'customer mode' into 'flirting mode'. Use our techniques and the next time you come across a beautiful receptionist, you'll be walking away with her phone number in minutes.
- Stripper: The exotic dancer is a common male fantasy…but, what if you could actually have sex with these women and make one of them your girlfriend for a while? Use our techniques to get strippers handing you their phone number and wanting to go on a date with you (or go home with you that night).
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What is 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend about?
21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend is about expanding your horizons by approaching women in places you would normally avoid. By following the advice in this program, your life will quickly fill up with single, beautiful women who want to be your girlfriend. From there, you can either date and have sex with many women, or choose one of them as your loving girlfriend.
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Who should buy this program?
You should buy 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend if you want to:
- Quickly begin dating and having sex with lots of women, or find a girlfriend.
- Improve your approaching & conversation skills.
- Meet cool new people and make more friends.
- Become better at flirting with women.
- Add more fun, excitement and adventure to your life.
- Speed up the process of finding your perfect woman for a long-term relationship.
- Get back into the dating scene after coming out of a relationship.
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Who shouldn't buy this program?
- Don't believe it's possible to improve their skills with women.
- Think they can only succeed with women if they're tall, dark and handsome...or rich and famous.
- Believe that buying an expensive car to try and impress women is better than spending a small amount of money to learn how to impress women with their personality.
- Hope that a beautiful, intelligent and interesting woman will simply land in their lap one day…after they've been single, alone and frustrated for most of their life.
- Really want to have beautiful, intelligent and interesting women in their lives but aren't prepared to improve and learn the techniques required to attract and maintain the interest of these women.
- Don't mind living a life of disappointment and regret, feeling left out and unloved by women and the world.
- Would rather sit at home alone, than enjoy the company of a beautiful woman as well as having lots more loving, cool friends that last a lifetime.
- Are afraid to take a chance when they see a great opportunity right in front of them.
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How is 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend different to other Modern Man products?
21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend is mainly focused on getting you to approach and meet women in many places, so you can quickly start dating and having sex with lots of women, or get a girlfriend. Other programs focus on other areas. For example: Mastery Methods & Mindsets is more about confidence and taking your success with women to the ultimate level.
Here is a quick summary of the different focuses of each Modern Man product:
- The Flow: Is perfect for beginners. It's the essential 'starter guide' guide for approaching women & getting dates in the modern world. A 'must read' for any man who is interested in improving his success with women.
- Confessions of a Natural: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu interview 'Naturals' (guys who are naturally good with women) and get them to reveal their rarely-known dating techniques and strategies for success with women.
- 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: Is about approaching & meeting women in different places, using customized techniques & strategies for each situation. Instead of wasting time with one or two ways to meet women (e.g. bars on weekends), you can now quickly find your ideal girlfriend and enjoy a relationship with her, or start meeting, dating and having sex lots of women immediately.
- Mastery Methods & Mindsets: Is about taking your confidence & success with women to the mastery level. The 'Mindsets' eliminate any fear, nervousness or anxiety that you may feel around women and replace it with unstoppable confidence. The 'Methods' are things for you to do that push you 'outside your comfort zone' and into sex and relationships with beautiful women.
- Dating Power: Is the complete, start-to-finish guide from approach, to sex, to first phone call, to date, to the bedroom and into a relationship. The techniques work by getting a woman to chase you, rather than you trying to 'pick her up'. Recorded in front of a live audience, Dating Power also includes important body language demonstrations and audience questions.
- Dating Power Stories: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu share the many lessons they've learnt along the way when approaching, dating and being in relationships with modern women. These priceless insights allow you to then avoid making common mistakes that lead to rejection, break-ups and women losing interest. Armed with the techniques revealed in this program, women won't want you to leave and will work hard to maintain your interest during conversations, on dates and in relationships. Secret Stories also explains how to use the Dating Power techniques in many real-life situations with women.
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What are the unique benefits of 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend?
- Maximize your chances: Most guys who struggle with women only use a couple of ways to try and find a girlfriend. With 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you'll learn the easy way to meet and begin talking to women in different environments. Whether it's the girl standing in line at the gas station, a hot woman walking through the mall, a woman you already know, or the hot chick serving you from behind the bar – you will now know exactly what to say and do to get her on a date with you.
- Get results faster: How much of your life have you wasted so far hoping that one day, something will 'magically happen' with a woman? Meanwhile, other guys are getting loads of love, attention and affection from the kinds of women you want to be with. 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend will show you how get results days and weeks from now – not years. Before you know it, you'll wake up with a beautiful woman next to you in your bed and smile, realizing that you're finally living the good life.
- Know what to say in each situation: How do you let a woman know that you like her, without getting rejected and ruining the friendship? What can you say to the beautiful woman you've just walked past in a bookstore that will make her turn to you and eagerly want to make conversation with you? How do you write an online dating profile that gets attention and will even make some women contact you first? All of the answers and more are in this amazing program.
- Eliminate other guys as competition: If you're not that good with women yet, there's no point trying to compete with other guys for the attention of beautiful women. In most of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will be in environments where other guys won't get in your way.
- Hold her attention: If you can't firmly hold the attention and interest of a woman for at least 5 minutes, your chances of getting her phone number are often lost. In this program, you will learn what to say and do to maintain a woman's interest, get her phone number and have her eagerly wanting to go on a date with you.
- Meet women without needing a wingman: Sometimes your friends don't want to go out on the weekend. Sometimes they're not available. Sometimes they don't want to approach women at all. If you are single, this then leaves you in a tough situation. Your life gets wasted, even though you'd rather be having sex with women and enjoying love and relationships. Good news: Every one of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend can be done alone, or with a friend. Better still, in many of the situations you will also make new friends as well as setting up dates with new women.
- Fill your life with beautiful women: When you have women in your life, you feel better about yourself. Life feels good, it feels balanced and natural. During the week, you can hang out with your girlfriend, have sex and enjoy each other's time. You can also catch up with female friends and do fun things together. On the weekend, you can catch up with friends some days and have your girlfriend come over on other days. You never feel alone. Instead, you feel loved, accepted and included and life feels great.
- Make new friends: In many of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will be in situations where you can make cool, new friends. Dan, Ben and Stu provide the 'how to' on establishing yourself as the 'cool guy' in social situations, so guys want to be your friend and women want to get into your bedroom.
- Be her dream guy: All over the world right now, hundreds of millions of single women are fantasizing about being approached during the day and swept off her feet by a man they don't know. It's a romantic fantasy that you often see played out in movies: A guy 'accidentally bumps' into a woman during the day and then starts a conversation. Hours or days later and you and the woman will be having hot, passionate sex. You can be that guy.
- Keep her interested: As her 'dream guy', you will enjoy a lot of control. The more she loves you, the more control you have over the relationship. She won't want to leave you, or cheat on you because you will be the most special guy she's ever met. You will be the guy she has been waiting for all her life. Her friends will be jealous and wish they could find a guy with confidence like yours.
- Meet women during the day and night: Sticking to bars or the occasional house party as you way to meet women can mean many months (or years) of loneliness. With 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will have 21 different ways to meet women during the day and night. Women will begin to flood into your life like never before.
- Improve at a rapid pace: As you apply the techniques revealed in this program, you will experience super fast improvements in all areas, including: Approaching women, starting & continuing conversations, getting phone numbers and moving towards a kiss and a first date. There's simply no faster way to improve your skills with women than by listening to this program and following the step-by-step instructions.
- Get better at making conversation: Do you sometimes run out of things to say to women during conversation? You'll be pleased to know that each of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend comes with different examples of what to say to start and continue conversations with women.
- Have choice: As a man, there's probably no worse feeling that knowing that you are secretly accepting 'whatever you can get' when it comes to women. It makes you feel like you are betraying yourself, accepting second best and not living your life the way you really want to be living it. When you use the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will be able to choose who you date, rather than accepting whatever you can get. You'll also begin attracting and dating beautiful women – the kind that you really want.
Plus, you also get the bonus 30-Day Challenge! Here are some of the unique benefits of the 30-Day Challenge:
- Get motivated: The 30-Day Challenge starts out with basic Challenges to simply get you out there talking to women in easy situations (e.g. clothing store, waitress at a café)and progresses to more advanced Challenges (getting phone numbers, setting up dates) as your skills and confidence build. That way, you don't 'crash and burn' on your first attempt and then lose motivation, or go back into your old ways again.
- Structured training: With the structured training provided in the 30-Day Challenge, you won't have to waste time trying to come up with plans & strategies yourself. It's all ready to use and is being used successfully by guys all over the world.
- Make it fun: It's easier to learn and get things done when you're having fun. Unfortunately, most men find meeting new women a nerve-wracking experience due to all the fear, nervousness and anxiety. The 30-Day Challenge removes all the worry, by providing you with c confident, fun approach to use when meeting women in each environment.
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What is the story behind 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend?
Over the past 5 years, Dan, Ben & Stu have approached, dated and enjoying relationships with women they've met in many different places.
Unlike other guys who mainly stick to bars as a way of finding a girlfriend, or hope to be introduced to a woman through friends – Dan, Ben and Stu have met women in bookstores, shopping malls, at festivals and in many other environments...and quickly turned those women into loving girlfriends.
After a while, Dan, Ben and Stu began to realize that different techniques and strategies are required to successfully 'pick up a woman up' in each environment. The approaching and conversation techniques used in bars, do not apply to meeting women in shopping malls. Nor do they apply to online dating!
They realized that a guy has to modify his approach, conversation style, level of flirting and how he asks for the number – otherwise he'll most likely get rejected. With the right information, he can collect phone numbers and date offers in almost any situation.
Dan, Ben & Stu decided to get together and map out the specific techniques and strategies required to meet women and get a girlfriend in 21 of the best situations we know of. The end result is this: Every time you step outside your home (whether it's day or night), you will have many ways to meet women and you'll know exactly what to say and do so the woman gives you her phone number and wants to go on a date with you.
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"I have a girlfriend thanks to you guys... "
"I have a girlfriend thanks to you guys and I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate it. Your guidance is so specific and well presented and when I met her during the day at my local mall (I originally just went to get some groceries!), it felt like the most natural and easy thing to do thanks to you
Your conversation examples made me feel more confident, because I would have otherwise run out of things to say. My girlfriend is the most beautiful person I have ever met and she also happens to be an easy 9/10...thanks again" S.L, Alabama, USA
"I'm actually going on a date tomorrow night!"
"I've been using the 30 day challenge for two weeks now...I'm halfway there and have scored to 2 numbers. In the beginning I thought I wasn't getting anywhere because the challenges were pretty easy, but now I see why they are set up like that…by the time I got to getting numbers it was easy as well, whereas I previously would have choked in that situation. It helped knowing what to say by using the conversation examples you guys provide in 21 ways.
I'm actually going on a date tomorrow night with one of the girls and just wanted to let you guys know and say thanks!!" Brian, San Diego
"She came home with me that same night"
"I got to a point where I thought I was hopeless with women.
I was frustrated and finally asked out a girl I had some rapport with. I thought just having the balls to ask her would make her want to date me. She turned me down.
I was living with three guys who got a TON of girls and thought there was something wrong with me and I didn't know how to fix it. I searched the internet for advice and eventually got 21 Ways. I listened to everything over and over for three days.
That week I woke up, put on a nice outfit and was brimming with confidence. I made eye-contact with everyone I saw and felt great and people could tell by how I was smiling and carrying myself. I could feel people viewing me in a new way.
I was waiting in a cafe before class and made eye contact and playful facial expressions with everyone (about a weird guy who seemed drunk at 9am) especially with this one girl. I recognized her as one of the girls on campus that every guy knew because she was that incredibly hot.
I didn't think twice about it and just went through the day doing what I was doing. I felt great! The next night I saw that hot girl at a bar.
She seemed to be all over my radar, trying to get me to notice her. Finally, she got a mutual friend to introduce us and we had a nice, fun conversation. She was chasing me!
When I could tell things were getting really interesting I said, "It's been nice talking to you. I'm gonna go get back to my friends and get a drink."
She was shocked! I saw her later on and got her number...she came home with me that same night...and we are now dating. You guys rock - thanks for everything..." John, Brooklyn, NY, 21
"I'd always chat to girls and never get anywhere"
"I've always been very chatty, funny and a extrovert, so no issues there but i NEVER knew how to flirt, I'd always chat to girls and never get anywhere.
Within 2 weeks of me listening to your advice i've introduced flirting and ended up with a seriously HOT girl last weekend. This is only the beginning and i'm starting to view rejection differently as well, no more despair - more like let's try again!!" Gary F, Melbourne, Australia
"The first time I used them [the techniques] I got a number"
"Hi Dan, now i know what i have been doing wrong all this time and that is being too nice,but now using the techniques i feel much more confident in approaching top class women.
The first time i used them i got a number in a bookstore and am working on getting lots more. the examples you guys provide are amazing...it really helps now that i have things to SAY to women when i talk to them" Chris, Australia, 29 years
"Was able to take them back to my place"
"I was at a movie theater with my friend John recently. We saw some girls and I was able to walk up to them, start a conversation and it just so happened we were going to the same movie. Perfect I know. Hung out with them after the Movie and was able to take them back to my place for some wine and some clean fun.
This has been the best investment i have ever made and have never been happier or more optimistic about my life and my future with women. " Bill D.C
"This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around"
"Before I got 21 Ways, I was not good socially. I would try to be nice to girls, and approach very few of them.
I would always let other people take the lead in social situations, and later when they would be with the girl, I found sit in the background.
Now, I understand how I should treat girls, make them laugh, lead them, etc. And my social life (and as a result my dating life) have all picked up to the point where I've slept with a good amount of women and it fun (not difficult or scary) to approach and meet now.
I've also made a heap of new friends now that I'm getting invited to house parties, using the tips you guys have given me. This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around. Thanks guys! " Jack Cedar Rapids, MO. Age 25
"I've already got 2 phone numbers ..."
"I've only had this program for a week and I've already got 2 phone numbers. For me that's a lot because I've always been to shy to meet women (especially during the day).
Using your conversation examples, I met one girl when I was buying some lunch during my break and another on the train..I've decided to date both of them and then work out which one I like best. Been chatting on the phone to train girl and went on a date with lunch girl last night (kissed her at the end). I can't thank you guys enough..." David, CA, USA
"Now I have a girlfriend..."
"When i found your audio program I thought "Okay here's something to take me in the right direction".
I'm not interested in just sleeping with girls, but now I have a girlfriend of 2 weeks and she is absolutely stunning. Best girl I have ever met, and I can be myself around her and be confident in such a way that I think this relationship is really going somewhere good." Will, Ohio
"I got four phone numbers in two hours..."
"I've always wanted to know how to get the hot chicks in shopping malls - especially the ones who work in the clothing stores.
Well, after listening to your program, I listened to what it said and followed the steps and get this - I got FOUR phone numbers in TWO hours. 2 of the girls were super hotties (one in a clothing store and one in a jewelry store), and the other two I met in the food court...so as you can imagine - I am absolutely over the moon with this!
To date in my life, I have NEVER been with a hot girl. Now, I have FOUR numbers...FOUR girls to choose from...this is insane and my friends cannot believe the change in me. I can't thank you guys enough for your expertise on this...I feel like a totally different man and finally feel like I have CONTROL in this area of my life!" PK, USA
"We ended up spending the day together..."
"I met a woman who was listed in the top ten in an online dating site just using the ideas from the online dating section in your program. She actually said she was really anticipating my visit and we ended up spending the day together" K, England
"I know I can get her..."
"I have vastly improved both my friendships with women and my romantic relationships as well. Now when I find a woman I am interested in and I know she is single, I know I can get her" Justin R Fort myers, FL, USA
"Approaching women during the day is easy now..."
"Since listening to your audio training I've got phone numbers 3 girls during the day. One in a mall, another who is a a waitress in a cafe near my work and the other when I was waiting in line at a juice bar.
I honestly can't believe that it's this easy now...seriously, it's like I'm living in a completely different world, where girls are as scary as they used to be...like, it's all no big deal. Seriously man, approaching women during the day is easy now...where as I used to always stumble, use a crap line and then run out of things to say...and it would quickly get awkward because I didn't know how to handle the situation. You guys deserve a medal or something. Big ups to y'all..." Ricky, Louisiana
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"Not only have I got a date lined up with a beautiful Russian girl this week, but I've also made heaps of new friends by using your techniques. My sister commented the other day that I seem so confident these days and asked me where I was meeting all the women I had been telling her about. My reply? Everywhere!" Ethan, Ireland
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