The Ultimate Guide to Conversation

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation

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How to talk to women in a way that makes them want you sexually and romantically. Unique, attractive and enjoyable ways to start conversations with women, keep conversations going and keep them interesting.

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Conversation Starter Formula

The problem

When a guy lacks the conversation skills necessary to make a woman want to have sex or a relationship with him, he will usually avoid starting conversations when he has an opportunity to talk to a woman he likes.

If he does manage to start a conversation with a woman he likes, he will often run out of things to say, or the conversation will quickly become boring and the woman will lose interest.

Even if he is a good guy and would be a great match for her, she will naturally lose interest and assume that they just don't have enough of a connection for something to happen.


The solution

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation teaches you everything that you need to know about starting conversations, keeping them going and keeping them interesting, as well as making women want you sexually and romantically as you talk to them.

You will be amazed and even shocked, at how much your success with women changes by even using a few of the conversation techniques in this program.


How it works

The conversation techniques that we have developed make women feel sexually attracted to you and then begin to fall in love with you.

A woman feels like she has known you for a long time (due to the amount of instant rapport and connection she feels), or as though you and her are just meant to be, so she opens up and wants something to happen between you and her.

By using these undetectable, powerful techniques, you will attract and connect with women on deeper and more meaningful levels than you ever have before.

You will see that women wake up and become turned on by you as you talk to them.

It is an amazing thing to experience, especially because it then leads to kissing, sex and a relationship, due to the woman wanting you so much.

During the 10 hours of audio, Dan, Ben and Stu explore the many different elements of an attractive conversation with a woman, providing you with techniques and word-for-word conversation examples to use each step of the way.

Dan, Ben and Stu also point out all of the mistakes that guys make in conversation, which cause women to lose attraction and interest, even though the guy usually could have picked her up if he knew what he was doing.

After listening to this program, you will know exactly what to say and what not to say, so you can naturally and easily get what you want with women from now on.

The broad categories in this program are:

  • Understanding women in conversation.
  • Conversation starters.
  • Keeping a conversation going and keeping it interesting.
  • Mistakes guys make that ruin conversation with women.
  • Maintaining confidence in conversation.
  • Making conversation on dates.
What you will learn

Introduction

  • Introduction: Understand the true purpose of a conversation between a man and a woman. Plus, discover the style of conversation that allows you to attract almost every woman you meet.

Understanding Women in Conversation

  • What women prefer: Learn the 3 essential components to an enjoyable, attractive conversation with a woman. Unless you include these 3 things, women won't find your conversation interesting, appealing or enjoyable and will lose interest no matter what else you are trying to offer/do.
  • Reading between the lines: Discover how to read between the lines and understand what women really mean when they say certain things to you. Use this to your advantage to know when a woman likes you and wants you to make a move on her.
  • Making a great first impression: Captivate a woman's attention and sweep her off her feet with our tested, proven to work ways to make a great first impression. She will be amazed, attracted, interested and excited to be talking to you.
  • Avoiding awkward silences: Discover the only proven way to avoid awkward silences during conversation. From now on, your conversations with flow smoothly and easily and you won't run out of things to say, or start feeling awkward and become tongue tied.
  • Getting her talking: Use subtle conversation techniques that will get her doing most of the talking, or at the very least, become open and interested in talking to you and contributing a lot to the conversation.

Common Fears and Frustrations in Conversation

  • Women looking uninterested: How to handle a situation where a woman appears to be uninterested in talking to you, or is pretending to be uninterested to test your confidence.
  • Fear of rejection: Do you sometimes avoid talking to women you find attractive because you fear being rejected? Here's how to overcome this problem and be confident from now on.
  • Having to make small talk: A lot of intelligent guys don't like 'small talk' because it doesn't allow them to showcase their strength (academic intelligence). However, small talk is an essential part of socializing with women you don't know. Learn the best way to make small talk, in a fun, interesting and intelligent way that is enjoyable for the both of you.
  • Fear of being judged or embarrassed: When talking to a woman you like, do you find yourself holding back on expressing yourself due to a fear of being judged for saying, or doing the wrong thing? What to do instead.
  • Unsure how to show interest: A lot of guys spend hours, weeks or months talking to a woman they like, but only talk to her as a friend. Discover the quickest, easiest and most effective ways to show sexual and romantic interest and have it reciprocated by the woman.
  • Confusing conversation: Women often say one thing and mean something completely different. Then, they expect you to just 'understand' what they're trying to tell you, or hint at. In this section, you'll learn the secret language of women...and women will love you for it.
  • Running out of things to say: Most guys feel like they run out of things to say when talking to women. In this section, you'll learn 6 powerful secrets to keeping conversations going and keeping them interesting.
  • Women not saying much at the start: If you've ever felt frustrated that some women don't say much when you first start talking to them, you're most-likely making some crucial conversation mistakes, which cause women to react in that way. Discover the cure in this section. Of course, sometimes you will meet a horrible woman and that's not your fault, but almost all cases, women will open up and be friendly if you approach the conversation correctly (i.e in an attractive way that makes her feel compelled to contribute).
  • Unsure how to handle disagreements: What if you say something that a woman disagrees with? What if she's not into the same kind of things as you? Learn how to use a 'disagreement' as an opportunity to build her attraction and interest in you.
  • Fear of talking to beautiful women: Discover why most men don't talk to the women they find most attractive. Plus, learn the secret conversation technique that helps you begin enjoying a plentiful supply of beautiful women who like you and want to be with you.

Conversation Starters

  • The perfect start: The 6 things you need to know to ensure that your conversation with a woman starts smoothly and she likes you straight away. Get this wrong and you will create an awkward vibe, or cause her to be closed up.
  • Conversation starter formula: Instantly come up with the perfect conversation starter, by using our simple, practical 'Conversation Starter Formula.' Works every time!
  • Recommended conversation starters: Discover the 3 best types of conversation starters that ensure you will make a great first impression and kick things off correctly.
  • 60+ situational conversation starters: Hear Dan, Ben and Stu demonstrate and explain how to use over 60 different conversation starters in this section. Examples include conversation starters for: Supermarket/grocery store, bar, walking along the street, in a café, lining up to get tickets for a movie, on public transport, woman walking a dog, woman carrying a musical instrument, woman listening to music on her phone and much more.
  • Conversation starters to avoid: Some conversation starters will lead to an instant rejection, or cause a woman to look at you strangely. Listen to this section to discover the types of conversation starters that you must avoid!

Keeping a Conversation Going and Keeping it Interesting

  • Getting the conversation going: What can you say after a conversation starter to get the conversation moving along? Listen to this section and discover the best things to talk about after the conversation starter that naturally get women excited and interested to be talking to you.
  • Listening to her: Find out where most guys go wrong regarding listening to women as they talk to them. Plus, apply our proven to work techniques that naturally establish instant connections with the women you meet. These techniques make a woman feel like you really understand her and that you and her 'click' in an attractive way.
  • Responding in different ways: Most guys make the mistake of responding in pretty much the same way to almost everything a woman says. Be more interesting, appealing and attractive by responding in the fun and interesting ways that we suggest in this section. You will enjoy the conversation so much more as well.
  • Using flirting: Avoid the 'friend zone' by using our non-sleazy, proven flirting techniques that drive women wild. Make her melt in your presence and feel an intense, sexual attraction for you that lasts.
  • Using humor: Ever heard a woman say that she wants a guy who can make her laugh? Women love to feel good and unless your conversation is funny and includes humor, most women will lose interest in talking to you. You don't have to make a woman laugh all the time, but you do need to add in the right type of humor or else the conversation will become boring or too nice (i.e. you will end up in the friend zone).
  • Being more animated in your expressions: Pump up your personality and be fun, interesting and engaging by using the practical techniques from this section. You'll notice that a woman's face will 'light up' with excitement and happiness when you use these powerful techniques. It's also so much more enjoyable for you because you don't end up 'going into your shell' by being too polite, reserved or hesitant. You let your real, true self and feelings come through and women love you for it.
  • Using emotional words: Do you find that your conversations with women tend to get boring pretty quickly? Especially after you've done the whole "Where are you from? What do you do?" part of the conversation? Experience the power of using emotional words in your conversation...and watch woman after woman almost instantly fall in love with you.
  • Common questions to keep the conversation going: Ask the thought-provoking questions that are included in this section and you'll be deep in conversation for hours!
  • Being your real self: A lot of guys make the mistake of putting on a false, or extra nice personality around women...and women can smell it a mile away. Create deep, meaningful and truthful connections with women by using our proven techniques for being your real self. There's nothing better than a woman loving you for YOU.
  • Telling stories: Why is it that some people can tell great stories that captivate everyone's attention, while others sound boring or even like they're bragging? Listen to this powerful section as we reveal easy, practical techniques that you can use instantly to have women (and people in general) become mesmerized by your stories.
  • Going into deep rapport: When is the right time to 'get deep' and explore deeper and more personal, private conversations with a woman? Learn the what, when, how, why and where of going into deep rapport with women. Use these techniques to quickly build relationships with women that you meet and establish a powerful connection that sets you apart from all the other guys.
  • Social Dos and Don'ts: Learn the top Dos and Don'ts of socializing with women. Get these right and you'll be seen as a cool, confident and charming guy. Get them wrong and women (and people in general) won't be able to connect with you properly (i.e. it will feel awkward).
  • Conversation topics to avoid: Find out the conversation topics that will turn women off in an instant. You must avoid these topics at all costs, unless you have a high level of skill with talking to women and can handle anything. Prior to that level though, you must try to avoid these topics at all costs because if you can't handle the woman's reaction to it, she will feel turned off and close up.
  • Complimenting women in the right way: Listen to examples of how and when to compliment women. Sweep a woman off her feet with a perfectly placed compliment. Also, discover all the mistakes that guys make with compliments that ruin a woman's interest during conversation, on a date and in a relationship.
  • Handling compliments and criticism with class: What should you say if a woman compliments you? There are many correct and incorrect ways to respond. Same goes if a woman criticizes you, or disagrees with something you've said or done. You'll hear many examples in this section that will save you from creating embarrassing situations when talking to women.
  • Ending conversations smoothly: When should you end a conversation with a woman, walk away and leave her wanting more? How can you do it smoothly? What should you say to her so she feels keen to talk to you again? Learn the classiest and most attractive way to end conversations with women, so they are excited to talk to you the next time.

Mistakes Guys Make That Ruin Conversation With Women

  • Talking about yourself: How much should you talk about yourself, versus getting a woman to talk about herself? Get this wrong and you will find it hard to attract pretty women and establish meaningful relationships with them that last.
  • Being attentive: Discover the right amount of attention that you should show to a woman during conversation when you want her to feel instant and lasting attraction for you. Get this wrong and you can easily come across as too needy, or too uninterested. It's important to get this part right if you want smooth, easy and consistent success with women.
  • Being emotional: We all know that women don't like guys who are too sensitive. However, what kind of emotion does a woman actually want you to show during conversation? Listen to this section to discover how to make a woman melt and literally 'fall in love with you' during conversation by expressing emotions in an attractive way.
  • Assertive vs. passive: How strong should you be in your opinions when talking to a woman? How forceful should you be when asking a woman out, or getting her phone number? The answers to these questions (and many more in this section) will amaze you.
  • Talking to women vs. talking to guys: There are important changes that you need to make to your conversation style when talking to a woman vs. talking to a guy. Get this wrong with attractive women and you'll end up in the 'friend zone'.
  • Creating distrust: Discover the subtle mistakes that some guys make during conversations, which cause a woman to feel cautious and not trust his motives. Learn the right way to talk to a woman, so she feels comfortable, trusts you and immediately opens up to kissing, sex or a relationship.
  • Being unimpressive: Subtle conversational mistakes that some guys make when talking about themselves, which cause them to look unimpressive. Surprisingly, these mistakes mostly happen when a guy is trying to impress a woman. Discover the right way to impress women with even the simplest things.
  • Contribution level: Do you sometimes say nothing at all (i.e. to avoid saying the wrong thing, or due to worrying too much about what to say), instead of saying anything just to keep the conversation going? Discover why this will ruin your chances with most women and how to fix it immediately, using the practical, easy-to-use techniques in this section.
  • Trying to fix her problems: Most guys ruin the perfect chance to connect with a woman, or attract her when she asks for advice on something, or is complaining, or whining about something. Discover the BEST ways to respond when a woman is looking for advice, complaining about something or just whining and being annoying. These responses ensure that you maintain her attraction for you, while still being a good man to her.
  • Mood killers: Avoid ruining the mood between you and a woman by steering clear of the conversation mistakes revealed in this section.
  • Disconnections: Find out the different ways guys accidentally cause a 'disconnect' between themselves and a woman they are trying to attract. Learn how to create instant and lasting connections between you and the women you meet.
  • Not funny: Discover why getting the right blend of humor in your conversations with women is critical to your success. Plus, why some guys who try too hard to be funny (in the wrong way) end up screwing up their chances with women.
  • Dishonesty: A lot of guys tell 'white lies' when trying to impress women and don't realize that most women can tell. Find out how to get women to love you for who you are right now...and not for any exaggerated story, or particular achievement in life that you think might be impressive to her, enough to want to be with you.
  • Lacking manliness: You may have heard a woman say, "I want a real man" and wondered what she means by that. If so, make sure you listen to this section and discover the secrets to showing women that you are the real man they've been looking for all along.
  • Lacking a sexual vibe: Find out how to instantly create a sexual vibe between you and a woman, so she wants to have sex with you and start a relationship with you, rather than putting you in the dreaded 'friend zone'.
  • Neediness: When you REALLY like a woman, do you find it hard to stay relaxed and not seem to keen? Neediness is a MASSIVE turn off to attractive women and there are many signs of neediness that you need to avoid. Listen to this section to learn how to be totally cool, confident and relaxed when talking to the woman of your dreams.

Conversation Jam Session

  • Random words: Listen in as Dan, Ben and Stu create conversations on the fly based on random words chosen on the spot. You'll learn how Dan, Ben and Stu instantly create humor and attractive conversations on the fly and how they come up with the examples.

Maintaining Confidence in Conversation

  • Confidence Mindset #1: Ever made a bad first impression on a woman during conversation and lost confidence over it, or said something awkward to a woman and regretted it for a long time? Here's how to feel totally confident in those situations from now on, as well as how to recover from a bad first impression.
  • Confidence Mindset #2: How can you remain composed and confident during conversations with women you really like, or with a group of attractive women? The answer will surprise you. Use the mindset from this section to maintain your confidence and composure when talking to attractive women.
  • Confidence Mindset #3: Learn how many guys subtly destroy their chances with a woman during a conversation and ending up losing confidence as a result. Plus, find out how to always feel totally confident when talking to a woman, while also ensuring that she feels irresistibly attracted to you.
  • Confidence Mindset #4: Do you sometimes feel shy, nervous or anxious when the spotlight turns on you during a conversation with a woman you like? Here's how to avoid ever feeling that way again. Plus, a confident mindset that will serve you well for the rest of your life, not only with women but in all social situations.

Date Conversation

  • Establishing a relationship: Too often, guys ruin their chance with a woman on the first date by saying all the wrong things. Discover how to set the foundation for a sexual, loving and lasting relationship while on dates with women.
  • Making her want you sexually: How to ensure that your date doesn't end awkwardly, with you being placed in the 'friend zone.' Use the proven techniques in this section to make a woman want you so much that begins to make it obvious that she is interested sexually and romantically.
  • Making her fall in love with you: Learn how to make a woman feel intense attraction for you and begin to naturally fall in love with you during a conversation.
  • Dating multiple women: If you don't want a committed relationship right now and would rather date and have sex with multiple women for a while, follow the advice given on managing many dating relationships at once. It's up to you what you do with this power. You can also use this attitude to make one woman try hard to get you to commit to her, even if you're not dating or sleeping with other women. You then allow her to become your girlfriend and she feels excited, proud and keen to be the best woman she can be for you.

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  • Start conversations with a natural ease: More than 60 tested conversation starters are included in this program. You will hear each of them being vocally demonstrated by Dan, Ben or Stu, so you know the correct tonality and expression to use when saying them. That way, you can begin getting results right away, rather than having to go through a period of trial and error.
  • Keep conversations going: If you can't maintain a conversation with a woman for long enough, you simply won't have enough time to establish a relationship, or at least a meaningful connection that could lead to a relationship. This program will not only teach exactly how to keep conversations going, but you will hear 100s of tested examples that you can use in your conversations immediately.
  • Keep conversations interesting: There's probably nothing worse that starting a conversation with a woman you like and then watching as it becomes awkward and boring before your very eyes. You try to think of something interesting to say, but nothing seems to work and your opportunity is gone. From today onwards, your conversations will not only be highly-interesting to women, but more interesting to you too.
  • Make a great first impression: Fumbling over your words, or saying the wrong things can quickly ruin your opportunity with a woman. When you know the exact words to use to kick conversations off correctly, you'll always be able to make a great first impression.
  • Make her laugh: You've probably heard a woman say, "I like a guy who can make me laugh" before right? Practically every woman says this. It's critically important that you know how to make women laugh during conversation. In this program, you will hear 100s of examples of funny things to say and do around women, which are guaranteed to get a laugh.
  • Make her sexually attracted to you: If a woman is not sexually attracted to you, you can talk to her for HOURS (even months) and not progress to a sexual relationship. The fastest way to get a woman sexually attracted to you is through confident, funny and flirtatious conversation…and you'll learn exactly how to do all that in this program.
  • Express your interest in her correctly: A lot of guys make the mistake of revealing their feelings for a woman in the wrong way. Unfortunately, this often leads the woman to end the friendship/relationship and the guy loses his chance. In this program, you will learn the correct way to show your interest in a woman during conversation. Best of all, this method is 100% rejection-free...you simply cannot get rejected if you use our proven techniques for talking to women.
  • Overcome nerves, anxiety and shyness: Women aren't attracted to nervousness, shyness or anxiety in a guy. In fact, it's as much as a turn off to women as obese women are to men. In this program, we discuss the many issues that cause nervousness, anxiety and shyness during conversation and provide proven techniques to instantly overcome these problems.
  • Always know what to say: Most guys avoid talking to women because they simply don't know what to say. This leads them to months (even years) of not having a girlfriend. In The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, you will hear 100s of examples of what to say to women to start and continue conversations. You will never be stuck thinking, "...but, I don't know what to say to her!"
  • Read between the lines: Women often speak a different language than men do. They do this by talking about things indirectly and hinting at things, while we men like to get right to the point. When you listen to this program, you will quickly learn the secret language that all women speak. From there, you will always know when women are hinting at liking you, wanting to kiss you and wanting to get into a relationship with you.
  • Guaranteed to work: Like everything you learn here at The Modern Man, what you learn from this program is guaranteed to work. By using our conversation techniques women will instantly become interested in you, want to date you and want to enter a relationship with you.
  • Avoid saying the wrong things: Have you ever been talking to a woman and everything was going fine, but you then said something and she instantly changed how she felt toward you? Don't worry – this happens all the time. Most guys don't realize that a lot of the things they say to women ruin the woman's attraction and interest in them. This amazing program will teach you the right way to express your feelings, opinions and ideas to women in the right way.
  • Respond in an interesting way: Guys who struggle to keep their conversations interesting will often be making the mistake of responding in a similar way to pretty much everything a woman says. In The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, you will learn how to respond in fun, interesting and unique ways when talking to women so they enjoy talking to you and want to get to know you more.
  • Avoid rejection when you ask her out: It's a big moment for a lot of guys: Actually having the balls to ask a woman out. Well, for guys who know how to talk to women properly, it's one of the easiest parts of the dating process. We'll teach you the exact way to ask a woman out, which guarantees you won't get rejected.
  • Feel totally confident when talking to beautiful women: Most guys want to have a beautiful woman as a girlfriend, wife or sex buddy. Yet, when they talk to these women they often 'freeze up' or become 'tongue-tied' and nervous. There are easy ways to fix these problems and you'll find all the solutions in this program.
  • Avoid awkward silences: You know the moment right? You start talking to a woman and then run out of things to say. She just looks at you and there's that awkward silence…then you lose your opportunity. If only you had something interesting to say, or the right questions to ask her to keep the conversation going! Well, you will when you listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation – it's jam-packed with ready-to-use examples. You'll never, ever have to experience awkward silences again.
  • Stay out of the friend zone: A lot of guys end up in the 'friend zone' with women because they don't know how to show sexual interest during conversation. They also don't know how to get the woman showing her sexual interest back. In this program, you'll discover powerful ways of causing women to feel intense sexual attraction for you…even if you've already known the woman for a while and are in the friend zone now.
  • Avoid rejection: Rejection can really sting. Being rejected by a woman you like is enough to cause most men to lose a lot of confidence and hide themselves away for weeks, or even months. However, when you know how to talk to women correctly so that they try to pick YOU up, you simply can't get rejected. From now on, you will have the 'dating power' when you talk to ANY woman…no matter how hot or sought-after she is.
  • Spark & maintain attraction: If a woman isn't attracted to you, it doesn't matter how much you talk to her – she still won't want you sexually. Using our proven techniques for conversation, you will be able to instantly spark a woman's attraction for you and then maintain that all the way into and throughout a relationship.
  • Be yourself and be loved for it: There's nothing better than women being attracted to you as a person and then falling in love with you for who you really are on the inside. When you learn how to talk to women correctly, they will eagerly try to get to know you. They'll find almost everything you say interesting and they will want to keep talking to you.
  • Talk your way into a relationship: Unless you talk to a woman, nothing will happen. She might as well be a photo on the internet to you…because all you're going to do is look at her. When you listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, you'll discover exactly what to say all the way from the conversation starter to the bedroom and into the relationship. Just knowing this gives you a massive boost in confidence and will allow you to act when you have an opportunity to speak to a woman.
  • Avoid being seen as needy or desperate: A lot of guys try not to appear needy or desperate during conversations with women they like, but they find it almost impossible to hide it. When you listen to this program, you will discover powerful techniques that will instantly eliminate any signs of neediness and desperation. In fact, these techniques are so powerful that they make the WOMAN become the needy and desperate one for you.
  • Handle tricky situations with ease: Sometimes, it won't be as straight-forward as talking to a woman, getting a number and going on a date. Sometimes things get in the way and make it harder to get to that point. Using our tested conversation examples, you will easily handle these 'tricky' situations and get the result you want.
  • Enjoy options: The more women you talk to, the more options you will have for sex, dating and relationships – it sounds simple, but that's how it works! You'll find that just by talking to women and using the techniques we provide in this program, you will immediately begin to see a change in how women treat you. They will want you as a boyfriend, husband or lover and it will be your choice whether you progress forward.
  • Avoid running out of things to say: This probably has to be one of the biggest problems for guys when talking to women. They know of a few things to say, but then run out of things to say and the conversation dies. Listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation and you will discover 100s of cool, funny, interesting things to say to women that keep your conversations going and keep them interesting!

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What is The Ultimate Guide to Conversation about?
Who should buy this program?
Who shouldn't buy this program?
How is The Ultimate Guide to Conversation different to other Modern Man products?
What are the unique benefits of The Ultimate Guide to Conversation?
What is the story behind The Ultimate Guide to Conversation?

What is The Ultimate Guide to Conversation about?

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation is about starting, continuing and escalating conversations (to a phone number, date, sex and relationship). It's about attracting women, connecting with them on deeper and more meaningful levels than other guys can and causing women to naturally fall in love with you.

There are 100s of things that you need to be aware of to be a great conversationalist when talking to women. Dan, Ben and Stu go into detail on all of those things, providing you with techniques and word-for-word examples of what to say each step of the way from hello into a relationship.

These priceless insights ensure that you'll NEVER run out of things to say and will ALWAYS be able to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting when talking to a woman you like.

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Who should buy this program?

You should buy The Ultimate Guide to Conversation if you want to:

  • Learn how to start and continue conversations with women.
  • Talk yourself into sex, dates and relationships with your ideal type of women.
  • Turn a female friend (or a girl you've liked for a while) into a lover or girlfriend.
  • Keep conversations going and keep them interesting.
  • Know what to say to a woman so she gives you her phone number and wants to go on a date with you.
  • Make women fall in love with you almost instantly (seriously – it really works).
  • Connect with women on deeper and more meaningful levels than other guys do.

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Who shouldn't buy this program?

Guys who:

  • Don't believe it's possible to improve their skills with women.
  • Think they can only succeed with women if they're tall, dark and handsome...or rich and famous.
  • Believe that buying an expensive car to try and impress women is better than spending a small amount of money to learn how to impress women with their personality.
  • Hope that a beautiful, intelligent and interesting woman will simply land in their lap one day…after they've been single, alone and frustrated for most of their life.
  • Really want to have beautiful, intelligent and interesting women in their lives but aren't prepared to improve and learn the techniques required to attract and maintain the interest of these women.
  • Don't mind living a life of disappointment and regret, feeling left out and unloved by women and the world.
  • Would rather sit at home alone, than enjoy the company of a beautiful woman as well as having lots more loving, cool friends that last a lifetime.
  • Are afraid to take a chance when they see a great opportunity right in front of them.

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How is The Ultimate Guide to Conversation different to other Modern Man products?

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation is entirely about conversation, connecting with women, getting to sex and establishing relationships. Other Modern Man products focus on specific areas. For example: 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend is about approaching women and finding a girlfriend, whereas Mastery Methods & Mindsets is about confidence and taking your success to the mastery level.

Here is a quick summary of the different focuses of each Modern Man product:

  • The Flow: Is perfect for beginners. It's the essential 'starter guide' guide for approaching women & getting dates in the modern world. A 'must read' for any man who is interested in improving his success with women.
  • Confessions of a Natural: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu interview 'Naturals' (guys who are naturally good with women) and get them to reveal their rarely-known dating techniques and strategies for success with women.
  • 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: Is about approaching & meeting women in different places, using customized techniques & strategies for each situation. Instead of wasting time with one or two ways to meet women (e.g. bars on weekends), you can now quickly find your ideal girlfriend and enjoy a relationship with her, or start meeting, dating and having sex lots of women immediately.
  • Mastery Methods & Mindsets: Is about taking your confidence & success with women to the mastery level. The 'Mindsets' eliminate any fear, nervousness or anxiety that you may feel around women and replace it with unstoppable confidence. The 'Methods' are things for you to do that push you 'outside your comfort zone' and into sex and relationships with beautiful women.
  • Dating Power: Is the complete, start-to-finish guide from approach, to sex, to first phone call, to date, to the bedroom and into a relationship. The techniques work by getting a woman to chase you, rather than you trying to 'pick her up'.  Recorded in front of a live audience, Dating Power also includes important body language demonstrations and audience questions.
  • Dating Power Stories: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu share the many lessons they've learnt along the way when approaching, dating and being in relationships with modern women. These priceless insights allow you to then avoid making common mistakes that lead to rejection, break-ups and women losing interest. Armed with the techniques revealed in this program, women won't want you to leave and will work hard to maintain your interest during conversations, on dates and in relationships. Secret Stories also explains how to use the Dating Power techniques in many real-life situations with women.
  • The Ultimate Guide to Conversation: Is the complete guide to conversation with women. Over 60 conversation starters for different situations, 100s of techniques for keeping conversations going and keeping them interesting as well as powerful techniques for making women naturally fall in love with you. Talk your way into sex, dates and relationships with women.

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What are the unique benefits of The Ultimate Guide to Conversation?

  • Start conversations with a natural ease: More than 60 tested conversation starters are included in this program. You will hear each of them being demonstrated by Dan, Ben or Stu. From there, you will know the correct tonality and expression to use when saying them…that way, you can start conversations with a natural ease, instead of creating an awkward vibe from the very start.
  • Keep conversations going: If you can't maintain a conversation with a woman for long enough, you simply won't have enough time to establish a relationship, or at least a meaningful connection that could lead to a relationship. This program will not only teach exactly how to keep conversations going, but you will hear 100s of tested examples that you can use in your conversations immediately.
  • Keep conversations interesting: There's probably nothing worse that starting a conversation with a woman you like and then watching as it becomes awkward and boring before your very eyes. You try to think of something interesting to say, but nothing seems to work and your opportunity is gone. From today onwards, your conversations will not only be highly-interesting to women, but more interesting to you too.
  • Make a great first impression: Fumbling over your words, or saying the wrong things can quickly ruin your opportunity with a woman. When you know the exact words to use to kick conversations off correctly, you'll always be able to make a great first impression.
  • Make her laugh: You've probably heard a woman say, "I like a guy who can make me laugh" before right? Practically every woman says this. It's critically important that you know how to make women laugh during conversation. In this program, you will hear 100s of examples of funny things to say and do around women, which are guaranteed to get a laugh.
  • Make her sexually attracted to you: If a woman is not sexually attracted to you, you can talk to her for HOURS (even months) and not progress to a sexual relationship. The fastest way to get a woman sexually attracted to you is through confident, funny and flirtatious conversation…and you'll learn exactly how to do all that in this program.
  • Express your interest in her correctly: A lot of guys make the mistake of revealing their feelings for a woman in the wrong way. Unfortunately, this often leads the woman to end the friendship/relationship and the guy loses his chance. In this program, you will learn the correct way to show your interest in a woman during conversation. Best of all, this method is 100% rejection-free...you simply cannot get rejected if you use our proven techniques for talking to women.
  • Overcome nerves, anxiety and shyness: Women aren't attracted to nervousness, shyness or anxiety in a guy. In fact, it's as much as a turn off to women as obese women are to men. In this program, we discuss the many issues that cause nervousness, anxiety and shyness during conversation and provide proven techniques to instantly overcome these problems.
  • Always know what to say: Most guys avoid talking to women because they simply don't know what to say. This leads them to months (even years) of not having a girlfriend. In The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, you will hear 100s of examples of what to say to women to start and continue conversations. You will never be stuck thinking, "...but, I don't know what to say to her!"
  • Read between the lines: Women often speak a different language than men do. They do this by talking about things indirectly and hinting at things, while we men like to get right to the point. When you listen to this program, you will quickly learn the secret language that all women speak. From there, you will always know when women are hinting at liking you, wanting to kiss you and wanting to get into a relationship with you.
  • Guaranteed to work: Like everything you learn here at The Modern Man, what you learn from this program is guaranteed to work. By using our conversation techniques women will instantly become interested in you, want to date you and want to enter a relationship with you.
  • Avoid saying the wrong things: Have you ever been talking to a woman and everything was going fine, but you then said something and she instantly changed how she felt toward you? Don't worry – this happens all the time. Most guys don't realize that a lot of the things they say to women ruin the woman's attraction and interest in them. This amazing program will teach you the right way to express your feelings, opinions and ideas to women in the right way.
  • Respond in an interesting way: Guys who struggle to keep their conversations interesting will often be making the mistake of responding in a similar way to pretty much everything a woman says. In The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, you will learn how to respond in fun, interesting and unique ways when talking to women so they enjoy talking to you and want to get to know you more.
  • Avoid rejection when you ask her out: It's a big moment for a lot of guys: Actually having the balls to ask a woman out. Well, for guys who know how to talk to women properly, it's one of the easiest parts of the dating process. We'll teach you the exact way to ask a woman out, which guarantees you won't get rejected.
  • Feel totally confident when talking to beautiful women: Most guys want to have a beautiful woman as a girlfriend, wife or sex buddy. Yet, when they talk to these women they often 'freeze up' or become 'tongue-tied' and nervous. There are easy ways to fix these problems and you'll find all the solutions in this program.
  • Avoid awkward silences: You know the moment right? You start talking to a woman and then run out of things to say. She just looks at you and there's that awkward silence…then you lose your opportunity. If only you had something interesting to say, or the right questions to ask her to keep the conversation going! Well, you will when you listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation – it's jam-packed with ready-to-use examples. You'll never, ever have to experience awkward silences again.
  • Stay out of the friend zone: A lot of guys end up in the 'friend zone' with women because they don't know how to show sexual interest during conversation. They also don't know how to get the woman showing her sexual interest back. In this program, you'll discover powerful ways of causing women to feel intense sexual attraction for you…even if you've already known the woman for a while and are in the friend zone now.
  • Avoid rejection: Rejection can really sting. Being rejected by a woman you like is enough to cause most men to lose a lot of confidence and hide themselves away for weeks, or even months. However, when you know how to talk to women correctly so that they try to pick YOU up, you simply can't get rejected. From now on, you will have the 'dating power' when you talk to ANY woman…no matter how hot or sought-after she is.
  • Spark & maintain attraction: If a woman isn't attracted to you, it doesn't matter how much you talk to her – she still won't want you sexually. Using our proven techniques for conversation, you will be able to instantly spark a woman's attraction for you and then maintain that all the way into and throughout a relationship.
  • Be yourself and be loved for it: There's nothing better than women being attracted to you as a person and then falling in love with you for who you really are on the inside. When you learn how to talk to women correctly, they will eagerly try to get to know you. They'll find almost everything you say interesting and they will want to keep talking to you.
  • Talk your way into a relationship: Unless you talk to a woman, nothing will happen. She might as well be a photo on the internet to you…because all you're going to do is look at her. When you listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, you'll discover exactly what to say all the way from the conversation starter to the bedroom and into the relationship. Just knowing this gives you a massive boost in confidence and will allow you to act when you have an opportunity to speak to a woman.
  • Avoid being seen as needy or desperate: A lot of guys try not to appear needy or desperate during conversations with women they like, but they find it almost impossible to hide it. When you listen to this program, you will discover powerful techniques that will instantly eliminate any signs of neediness and desperation. In fact, these techniques are so powerful that they make the WOMAN become the needy and desperate one for you.
  • Handle tricky situations with ease: Sometimes, it won't be as straight-forward as talking to a woman, getting a number and going on a date. Sometimes things get in the way and make it harder to get to that point. Using our tested conversation examples, you will easily handle these 'tricky' situations and get the result you want.
  • Enjoy options: The more women you talk to, the more options you will have for sex, dating and relationships – it sounds simple, but that's how it works! You'll find that just by talking to women and using the techniques we provide in this program, you will immediately begin to see a change in how women treat you. They will want you as a boyfriend, husband or lover and it will be your choice whether you progress forward.
  • Avoid running out of things to say: This probably has to be one of the biggest problems for guys when talking to women. They know of a few things to say, but then run out of things to say and the conversation dies. Listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation and you will discover 100s of cool, funny, interesting things to say to women that keep your conversations going and keep them interesting!

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What is the story behind The Ultimate Guide to Conversation?

After receiving just over 14,000 e-mail requests during the last 12 months (from newsletter subscribers and customers), Ben, Stu and I set aside some time to read through them all. Our aim was to find out what we should help you with next. We quickly noticed that about 80% of e-mails we received included questions about WHAT TO SAY to women.

Here are some of the questions we've been getting:

  • How do I keep a conversation going and keep it interesting?
  • There's a woman I like, but I don't know what to say to her to get her to like me. What do I say?
  • I run out of things to say when talking to women. How can I come up with interesting things to talk about?
  • There's a girl I like – how do I tell her that I like her?
  • How do I get a woman to be interested in talking to me immediately?
  • I need help with conversation and what to say around women I've just met. Any tips?
  • How do I maintain a woman's interest in talking to me?
  • Should I be talking differently on a date, compared to the first conversation?

To answer all of these questions (and more) Ben, Stu and I have spent the last 6 months planning, structuring, refining and then recording The Ultimate Guide to Conversation!

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation is about starting, continuing and escalating conversations (to a phone number, date, sex and relationship). It's about attracting women, connecting with them on deeper and more meaningful levels than other guys can and causing women to naturally fall in love with you.

There are 100s of things that you need to be aware of to be a great conversationalist when talking to women. We go into detail on all of those things, providing you with easy techniques and word-for-word examples of what to say so you can quickly progress from a conversation into a relationship.

The priceless insights in this 10-HOUR AUDIO PROGRAM ensure that you will never, ever run out of things to say when talking to a woman. You will always be able to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting when talking to a woman you like.

The broad topics in this 10-hour audio program are:

  • Understanding women in conversation.
  • Conversation starters.
  • Keeping a conversation going and keeping it interesting.
  • Mistakes guys make that ruin conversation with women.
  • Maintaining confidence in conversation.
  • Making conversation on dates.

In essence, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation will teach you how to talk your way into sex, dates, love and relationships with women!

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"It worked!"

"Just a quick note to you guys as I know you get a lot of emails! Anyway, I used the tips from your conversation program to FINALLY talk to a woman I've liked for about 6 months...I know her through a friend. I'd always been too shy to talk to her and worried about stuffing up because I didn't really know what to say and how to ask her out.

Well, I said what you guys recommended to say and it worked! We went out on a date last night and it ended with a passionate kiss next to her car. The conversation on the date was exciting, interesting, funny and her eyes were basically popping out of her head with excitement. Was so cool! She texted me this morning saying she had a great time! Unbelievable result! Thanks guys - couldn't have done it without your guidance..." PJ, Liverpool


"The best part...is the amount of examples of what to say"

"Awesome guys! You've really done it this time. Your info on approaching women is stellar and has helped me get dates, but I have to admit that I've been struggling with keeping conversations going and keeping them interesting - and that has been holding me back from really achieving what I want with women. The best part of this program so far as I can judge is the amount of examples of what to say. I feel like I am ready for battle this weekend for sure!" Chad, MI, USA


"Loving the program!"

"Hey guys, loving the program! the things that are really standing out for me and are really helpful are: conversation jam session, fixing women's problems, listening, fears and frustrations, questions to keep conversations going. You covered all the questions i needed answering about difficult women which is what i was looking for!!!

when stu said if a woman is giving 20% you gotta give 80% and so on really helped, cause i felt if a woman isnt giving much, it is wrong to do this cause conversation feels forced, but now i know its the right thing to do! also when you were talking about ASH and if woman doesnt like him " well she's boring, she doesnt deserve my time and effort, bad luck for her.

i started to look that way too, but hearing it from some one else made me think im really on the right track. go out and have fun, and bring women into your good nite. if they dont want a bar of it, well shes boring, go find someone else who is up for a good time. THATS the key!" DT, Sri Lanka


"Kissed her!"

"It's an amazing revelation for me that your stuff works so well. 2 weeks ago my super hot hairdresser was asking if I had my own place, flirting with me and arranging to meet out at a club etc. Before I listened to the Ultimate Guide to Conversation I was so socially/emotionally dumb I would have just thought she was just making conversation and taken everything literally...lol! But now I know that there's a whole world of sub communication as you well – VERY COOL to know this stuff! I met my hairdresser out last night and kissed her! Lol...I feel amazing right now!!" AB, London


"This has just upped my game so much"

"I've just recently bought the conversation product, I'm on chapter 6 and it's brilliant. Mate I've always been good with conversation, been a good listener and able to connect but this has just upped my game so much. I feel that it's improved the quality of my conversational ability ten fold ... I've already put some of it into practice and I'm consciously seeing some of the things I was oblivious to or naturally doing." Michael, South Africa


"She turned to me and said I love you"

"I got your conversation program 1.5 months ago and got a girlfriend within 2 weeks of using the material (I met this girl at the cafe she works at). Now, I haven't had a proper girlfriend for 7 years prior to this, so you can imagine the boring life I've been living. Anyway, I just wanted to write you and say thanks for teaching us guys this stuff, because I am now in a loving relationship with an amazing, loving and caring woman who is also beautiful. On the weeknd when she was staying over my place, we were lying in bed in the morning and she turned to me and said I love you. Man, I can't tell you how good that made me feel!

I feel like a new man and I owe a lot of thanks to what I got from your conversation program...it really helped me bring out the more interesting side to my personality. Other women often found me boring when I talked to them, so they would lose interest pretty quickly. Now people love talking to me and I feel like I'm really being my true self these days...and that makes me feel so good as a person. I also no longer feel awkward when talking to people I don't know or to beautiful women who used to made me feel nervous - now I just speak with confidence and ease, which as I say - makes me feel so good as a person. Plus, girls at work are now treating me with more respect. I can't thank you guys enough - keep up the great work!"
Paul Hatson, New Jersey, USA


"I am glad with my purchase"

"I would also like to congratulate you for the quality of the content of the material. You are really professional and I am glad with my purchase. " Fabrico, Brazil


"I'm going to give it a try tomorrow"

"...have only listened to about 2 hours so far and I'm smiling ear to ear. I've been wondering how to talk to a girl I like at work and now I have the answers...I'm going to give it a try tomorrow. Wish me luck!" P. Hudson, London


"It is what I need the most"

"I skipped straight to the part on flirting because it is what I need the most. When girls talk to me they get the idea that I'm just 'too nice' and there's no spark or anything between us...I've tried to flirt before but couldn't get it to work. Thanks a bunch for all the flirting examples fellas - I'll be using this stuff on Friday night at my local pub..." Gary, Sydney, Australia


"The results were so fast"

I've got another success story for you guys to add to your list! The Ultimate Guide to Conversation is so satisfying that I feel obligated to help you convince other guys to take a leap of faith and buy it.

I suppose I should start with the condition I was in before I bought the product about two and a half weeks ago. I was (and still am) a 17 year old senior in High School. I know that your first thought will probably be that at this age I am too YOUNG to be worrying about this sort of thing (I notice that a lot of guys who buy your stuff are between 20 to 35), but I have had unusual difficulties, and it is not in my temperament to procrastinate even with things I know are easy.

I avoided girls on purpose until I had my first crush at the age of 15. It was a terrible shock to suddenly find a girl I had ignored for the previous decade to be indescribably delightful. After about three months of careful observation and thought, I realized that girls love to talk, and so talking to the girls I liked might be a good way of dealing with my new emotions.

I started by simply announcing to the girls I liked that I liked them, and telling them that I would like to get to know them better if they were willing. That has only worked only partially with one girl who unfortunately lives in Alabama (I live in Kansas). I was so clueless that I set myself up for rejection on purpose because I felt as though that was a more honest way of going about picking up girls.

After a few failures, I became methodical in the way I got myself rejected so that I could try to isolate certain factors that might have caused the rejection. At the time I bought the product, I was at the point where rejection was almost guaranteed, but not a horrible ordeal that would make the girl not want to talk to me again.

After several weeks of going through about one girl a week in nearly the same pattern, I had stopped learning new things and had run out of ideas, so was getting ready to ask out the girls I thought were likely in the order I saw them until something happened or I thought of something new. Luckily I made up my mind to buy the product the day before I was going to do that, and canceled my previous plan because I had a new approach to take.

I listened to two hours of audio the first night I bought it, and was so excited that I stayed awake for 4 hours after first trying to sleep because I kept thinking of new applications of the information I could use. I managed limited and sporadic use of some of the techniques at school, and by the end of the week I got girls in nearly every hour of class showing signs of romantic attraction.

The results were so fast that I found myself skipping to whichever section in the guide that had most immediate need, and lost a lot of opportunities simply because it hadn't occurred to me that I could get results so fast.

The Saturday after I bought it there was a winter formal in which I got three consecutive hours to do nothing but try out the techniques. It was great! I asked for two numbers and got both, and got another I didn't ask for. I was so successful that I must have spent half as much energy trying to stay away from the girls I didn't like without hurting their feelings as I did going after the ones I did like. I spent two nearly consecutive hours with one girl. I did initially try to avoid spending too much time with her like was suggested in the audio, but she kept coming back to me, and I liked her, so I didn't stop it.

I have since been over to that girl's house twice. The second time we snuggled during a movie and then played a board game. I am happier now than I have ever been. I have also found that many of the techniques work on males as well for making friends, which means a lot to me because I've only ever had 1 or 2 friends at a time...now I have heaps and am getting invited to parties, which is really cool. Thanks a lot guys – really enjoying what I've been learning from this program." Jack G, USA


"It really exceeds my expectations"

"I've almost completely gone trough your gide to coversation now. I must say, at first, I felt a little reluctant to buy your product over the internet. Because I 'd never bought something in this way and I also didn't know what the quality of your product would be. But now I'm glad I did. It's been fun to listen to, and of course very enlightening. It really exceeds my expectations.

In this way I want to thank Ben, Stu and you for supplying this kind of product. I really know it will make a big difference in my life. Now I have some guidance in coversations with women. I still need a lot of practice, I know that, but I'm eager to get out there and go for it." Mark, Belgium


"Entertaining and educational"

"Hey guys, just wanted to let you know im working through the ultimate guide to conversation, and so far its really entertaining and educational, which is great." Shaun, Canada

To submit a review/testimonial/success story, please contact us. We would love to hear from you.

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