What is 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend about?

21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend is about expanding your horizons by approaching women in places you would normally avoid. By following the advice in this program, your life will quickly fill up with single, beautiful women who want to be your girlfriend. From there, you can either date and have sex with many women, or choose one of them as your loving girlfriend.

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Who should buy this program?

You should buy 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend if you want to:

• Quickly begin dating and having sex with lots of women, or find a girlfriend.
• Improve your approaching & conversation skills.
• Meet cool new people and make more friends.
• Become better at flirting with women.
• Add more fun, excitement and adventure to your life.
• Speed up the process of finding your perfect woman for a long-term relationship.
• Get back into the dating scene after coming out of a relationship.

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Who shouldn't buy this program?

Guys who:

• Don't believe it's possible to improve their skills with women.
• Think they can only succeed with women if they're tall, dark and handsome...or rich and famous.
• Believe that buying an expensive car to try and impress women is better than spending a small amount of money to learn how to impress women with their personality.
• Hope that a beautiful, intelligent and interesting woman will simply land in their lap one day…after they've been single, alone and frustrated for most of their life.
• Really want to have beautiful, intelligent and interesting women in their lives but aren't prepared to improve and learn the techniques required to attract and maintain the interest of these women.
• Don't mind living a life of disappointment and regret, feeling left out and unloved by women and the world.
• Would rather sit at home alone, than enjoy the company of a beautiful woman as well as having lots more loving, cool friends that last a lifetime.
• Are afraid to take a chance when they see a great opportunity right in front of them.

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How is 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend different to other Modern Man products?

21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend is mainly focused on getting you to approach and meet women in many places, so you can quickly start dating and having sex with lots of women, or get a girlfriend. Other programs focus on other areas. For example: Mastery Methods & Mindsets is more about confidence and taking your success with women to the ultimate level.

Here is a quick summary of the different focuses of each Modern Man product:

• The Flow: Is perfect for beginners. It's the essential 'starter guide' guide for approaching women & getting dates in the modern world. A 'must read' for any man who is interested in improving his success with women.
• Confessions of a Natural: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu interview 'Naturals' (guys who are naturally good with women) and get them to reveal their rarely-known dating techniques and strategies for success with women.
• 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: Is about approaching & meeting women in different places, using customized techniques & strategies for each situation. Instead of wasting time with one or two ways to meet women (e.g. bars on weekends), you can now quickly find your ideal girlfriend and enjoy a relationship with her, or start meeting, dating and having sex lots of women immediately.
• Mastery Methods & Mindsets: Is about taking your confidence & success with women to the mastery level. The 'Mindsets' eliminate any fear, nervousness or anxiety that you may feel around women and replace it with unstoppable confidence. The 'Methods' are things for you to do that push you 'outside your comfort zone' and into sex and relationships with beautiful women.
• Dating Power: Is the complete, start-to-finish guide from approach, to sex, to first phone call, to date, to the bedroom and into a relationship. The techniques work by getting a woman to chase you, rather than you trying to 'pick her up'. Recorded in front of a live audience, Dating Power also includes important body language demonstrations and audience questions.
• Dating Power Stories: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu share the many lessons they've learnt along the way when approaching, dating and being in relationships with modern women. These priceless insights allow you to then avoid making common mistakes that lead to rejection, break-ups and women losing interest. Armed with the techniques revealed in this program, women won't want you to leave and will work hard to maintain your interest during conversations, on dates and in relationships. Secret Stories also explains how to use the Dating Power techniques in many real-life situations with women.

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What are the unique benefits of 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend?

• Maximize your chances: Most guys who struggle with women only use a couple of ways to try and find a girlfriend. With 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you'll learn the easy way to meet and begin talking to women in different environments. Whether it's the girl standing in line at the gas station, a hot woman walking through the mall, a woman you already know, or the hot chick serving you from behind the bar – you will now know exactly what to say and do to get her on a date with you.
• Get results faster: How much of your life have you wasted so far hoping that one day, something will 'magically happen' with a woman? Meanwhile, other guys are getting loads of love, attention and affection from the kinds of women you want to be with. 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend will show you how get results days and weeks from now – not years. Before you know it, you'll wake up with a beautiful woman next to you in your bed and smile, realizing that you're finally living the good life.
• Know what to say in each situation: How do you let a woman know that you like her, without getting rejected and ruining the friendship? What can you say to the beautiful woman you've just walked past in a bookstore that will make her turn to you and eagerly want to make conversation with you? How do you write an online dating profile that gets attention and will even make some women contact you first? All of the answers and more are in this amazing program.
• Eliminate other guys as competition: If you're not that good with women yet, there's no point trying to compete with other guys for the attention of beautiful women. In most of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will be in environments where other guys won't get in your way.
• Hold her attention: If you can't firmly hold the attention and interest of a woman for at least 5 minutes, your chances of getting her phone number are often lost. In this program, you will learn what to say and do to maintain a woman's interest, get her phone number and have her eagerly wanting to go on a date with you.
• Meet women without needing a wingman: Sometimes your friends don't want to go out on the weekend. Sometimes they're not available. Sometimes they don't want to approach women at all. If you are single, this then leaves you in a tough situation. Your life gets wasted, even though you'd rather be having sex with women and enjoying love and relationships. Good news: Every one of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend can be done alone, or with a friend. Better still, in many of the situations you will also make new friends as well as setting up dates with new women.
• Fill your life with beautiful women: When you have women in your life, you feel better about yourself. Life feels good, it feels balanced and natural. During the week, you can hang out with your girlfriend, have sex and enjoy each other's time. You can also catch up with female friends and do fun things together. On the weekend, you can catch up with friends some days and have your girlfriend come over on other days. You never feel alone. Instead, you feel loved, accepted and included and life feels great.
• Make new friends: In many of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will be in situations where you can make cool, new friends. Dan, Ben and Stu provide the 'how to' on establishing yourself as the 'cool guy' in social situations, so guys want to be your friend and women want to get into your bedroom.
• Be her dream guy: All over the world right now, hundreds of millions of single women are fantasizing about being approached during the day and swept off her feet by a man they don't know. It's a romantic fantasy that you often see played out in movies: A guy 'accidentally bumps' into a woman during the day and then starts a conversation. Hours or days later and you and the woman will be having hot, passionate sex. You can be that guy.
• Keep her interested: As her 'dream guy', you will enjoy a lot of control. The more she loves you, the more control you have over the relationship. She won't want to leave you, or cheat on you because you will be the most special guy she's ever met. You will be the guy she has been waiting for all her life. Her friends will be jealous and wish they could find a guy with confidence like yours.
• Meet women during the day and night: Sticking to bars or the occasional house party as you way to meet women can mean many months (or years) of loneliness. With 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will have 21 different ways to meet women during the day and night. Women will begin to flood into your life like never before.
• Improve at a rapid pace: As you apply the techniques revealed in this program, you will experience super fast improvements in all areas, including: Approaching women, starting & continuing conversations, getting phone numbers and moving towards a kiss and a first date. There's simply no faster way to improve your skills with women than by listening to this program and following the step-by-step instructions.
• Get better at making conversation: Do you sometimes run out of things to say to women during conversation? You'll be pleased to know that each of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend comes with different examples of what to say to start and continue conversations with women.
• Have choice: As a man, there's probably no worse feeling that knowing that you are secretly accepting 'whatever you can get' when it comes to women. It makes you feel like you are betraying yourself, accepting second best and not living your life the way you really want to be living it. When you use the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, you will be able to choose who you date, rather than accepting whatever you can get. You'll also begin attracting and dating beautiful women – the kind that you really want.

Plus, you also get the bonus 30-Day Challenge! Here are some of the unique benefits of the 30-Day Challenge:

• Get motivated: The 30-Day Challenge starts out with basic Challenges to simply get you out there talking to women in easy situations (e.g. clothing store, waitress at a café)and progresses to more advanced Challenges (getting phone numbers, setting up dates) as your skills and confidence build. That way, you don't 'crash and burn' on your first attempt and then lose motivation, or go back into your old ways again.
• Structured training: With the structured training provided in the 30-Day Challenge, you won't have to waste time trying to come up with plans & strategies yourself. It's all ready to use and is being used successfully by guys all over the world.
• Make it fun: It's easier to learn and get things done when you're having fun. Unfortunately, most men find meeting new women a nerve-wracking experience due to all the fear, nervousness and anxiety. The 30-Day Challenge removes all the worry, by providing you with c confident, fun approach to use when meeting women in each environment.

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What is the story behind 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend?

Over the past 5 years, Dan, Ben & Stu have approached, dated and enjoying relationships with women they've met in many different places.

Unlike other guys who mainly stick to bars as a way of finding a girlfriend, or hope to be introduced to a woman through friends – Dan, Ben and Stu have met women in bookstores, shopping malls, at festivals and in many other environments...and quickly turned those women into loving girlfriends.

After a while, Dan, Ben and Stu began to realize that different techniques and strategies are required to successfully 'pick up a woman up' in each environment. The approaching and conversation techniques used in bars, do not apply to meeting women in shopping malls. Nor do they apply to online dating!

They realized that a guy has to modify his approach, conversation style, level of flirting and how he asks for the number – otherwise he'll most likely get rejected. With the right information, he can collect phone numbers and date offers in almost any situation.

Dan, Ben & Stu decided to get together and map out the specific techniques and strategies required to meet women and get a girlfriend in 21 of the best situations we know of. The end result is this: Every time you step outside your home (whether it's day or night), you will have many ways to meet women and you'll know exactly what to say and do so the woman gives you her phone number and wants to go on a date with you.

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Advanced Dating Pack 1

Provides you with additional training that has been designed to get you even faster results with women.

1. The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
2. The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.
3. 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend – 7 hours of audio.
• FREE BONUS
  30 Day Challenge: How to date, have sex and get into a relationship with an attractive woman in 30 days or less, or quickly have casual sex with multiple attractive women. 108-page ebook. $97 value.
4. Coaching Call Breakthroughs – 7 hours of video.
5. Confessions of a Natural Interviews – 7 hours of audio.

Total price: $485
Pack price: Only $224
You save: $261 (53% discount)

Advanced Dating Pack 2

Provides you with additional training that has been designed to get you even faster results with women.

1. The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
2. The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.
3. 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend – 7 hours of audio.
• FREE BONUS
  30 Day Challenge: How to date, have sex and get into a relationship with an attractive woman in 30 days or less, or quickly have casual sex with multiple attractive women. 108-page ebook. $97 value.
4. Coaching Call Breakthroughs – 7 hours of video.
5. Confessions of a Natural Interviews – 7 hours of audio.
6. The Ultimate Guide to Conversation – 10 hours of audio.
• FREE BONUS
  72 Conversation Starters: Quick reference guide with all of the conversation starters from The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, plus exclusive conversation starters that are only found in this bonus guide. 40-page ebook. $97 value.

Total price: $782
Pack price: Only $357
You save: $425 (54% discount)

Mastery Dating Pack (All Dating Products)

Gives you all of our dating lessons, advice and techniques that result in you experiencing the mastery level success with women (i.e. women try to pick you up when you talk to them, women chase you when you begin dating, you always have bulletproof confidence, you always know what to say and do, you experience your choice of high quality women).

These 11 products are the culmination of Dan, Ben, and Stu’s more than 10,000 hours of mastery level dating experiences with women, as well as many years of experimentation, testing, trial and error and development prior to then.

You don’t have to go through many years of trial and error, testing and hard work all on your own to hopefully figure out the secrets we discovered about women and dating that result in the mastery level of success.

You can learn it all from us right now and begin enjoying the mastery level success with women, where women try to pick you up, chase you during the dating phase and hope that you give them a chance.

That’s what women really want when it comes to dating.

Women love to experience the excitement of truly wanting a guy, trying to impress him, hoping to get a chance with him and then being lucky enough to get that chance.

When you make a woman feel that way, she then loves and appreciates you so much more.

It makes everything about dating 10x easier and enjoyable for both you and the woman.

1. The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
2. The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.
3. 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend – 7 hours of audio.
• FREE BONUS
  30 Day Challenge: How to date, have sex and get into a relationship with an attractive woman in 30 days or less, or quickly have casual sex with multiple attractive women. 108-page ebook. $97 value.
4. Coaching Call Breakthroughs – 7 hours of video.
5. Confessions of a Natural Interviews – 7 hours of audio.
6. The Ultimate Guide to Conversation – 10 hours of audio.
• FREE BONUS
  72 Conversation Starters: Quick reference guide with all of the conversation starters from The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, plus exclusive conversation starters that are only found in this bonus guide. 40-page ebook. $97 value.
7. Text Attraction – 14 hours, 24 mins of video.
• FREE BONUS
  1200 Text Examples: Quick reference guide with all texts from the Text Attraction program, so you can easily find any text you need right away when texting live with a woman. 535-page eBook. $297 value.
8. Dating Power – 8 hours of video.
• FREE BONUS
  Dating Power Private Examples: Dan, Ben and Stu share 28 uncensored, personal stories of how they’ve used the Dating Power techniques to enjoy mastery level success with women (i.e. women try to pick you up, women make it obvious that they like you, women want you so much that they have sex with you on the first night or date and they chase you during the dating phase). 3 hours, 46 mins of video. $297 value.
• FREE BONUS
  Dating Power Presentation Slides: 261-page ebook with the presentation slides from the Dating Power seminar. Helps you remember what you’ve learned from the seminar and strengthens your understanding of key concepts and advice. $97 value.
9. Better Than a Bad Boy – 10 hours, 50 mins of video.
10. Alpha Male Power – 5 hours, 33 mins of video.
11. Mastery Methods & Mindsets – 7 hours, 35 mins of audio.

Total price: $2,467
Pack price: Only $797
You save: $1,670 (67% discount)

“Yesterday I was on the train heading to Edinburgh, and sitting across from a cute woman who I noticed several times was checking me out by giving coy smiles and checking me out in the reflection as we went through a few tunnels.

I put aside my nervousness and said internally, right I’m going to attempt to make something out of this no matter what.

I followed the example in 21 great ways to get a GF (Public transport. I typed into my phone (Look I know people don’t normally talk to people on trains, but I wanted to say hi, I’m Richie).

She was a bit deer in the headlights expression, but she took my phone and typed in (I’m Aileen how far are you heading?) and we started chatting.

She was getting off at the next station 10 mins later and I told her it’s been great chatting to you, we should chat again, put your number in and I’ll give you a shout. She gave me her number sure enough.

A guy was watching us and I could tell he was thinking to himself WTF out of jealousy because she was cute.

On the way back to Glasgow I sat opposite an attractive blonde girl who I smiled at and started talking to her and got her number too.

And I was also aware of a woman across from us, who was watching and listening into the conversation.

I am now looking forward to travelling on the train later today because there will be opportunities to talk and get more numbers. Richard”

“Admittedly I was already confident before getting your program but I needed to know what to do.

I’d see women I liked but then get stuck on what I could say or what I should do.

Not a problem for me any more.

I’ve hooked up with 3 women since listening to your program and trying it out on waitresses, receptionists and random women I meet tbh.

I have been getting phone numbers left and right and it all seems so easy now. Thank you guys for explaining all this and helping me take control of my dating life. Vince”

“Got myself a girlfriend by using your techniques for the mall.

It was terrifying at first to just approach her, but I knew what to say and how to handle it so it worked to my surprise.

After being together for a few months, she told me that what I did at the mall was romantic and explained how she had always dreamed of meeting her perfect boyfriend during the day like that.

I never would have believed women thought that way until listening to you guys explain everything.

She is like a 9/10 in my books for looks, so getting your program and having the guts try it out on a woman has completely changed my life.

I actually found you guys from a random Google search. I see it as fate tbh. I was meant to learn this stuff. Love you guys. Nasir”

“I’ve been using the 30 day challenge for two weeks now…I’m halfway through it and have scored to 2 numbers.

In the beginning I thought I wasn’t getting anywhere because the starter challenges were pretty easy, but now I see why you guys set them up like that…you get us ready for the harder challenges.

So I was a little frustrated in the beginning and then stuck with it and was very happy with my progress because I started getting numbers.

I’m actually going on a date tomorrow night with one of the girls I got a number from and just wanted to let you guys know and say thanks!! Brian”

“I got to a point in life where I realized that I was hopeless with women and needed to do something about it.

I was frustrated and finally asked out a girl I had a good connection with.

I thought just having the balls to ask her would make her want to date me. She turned me down.

Thar rejection almost destroyed any remaining confidence I had with women.

I was also living with three guys who got a TON of girls and so I thought there had to be something wrong with me or my approach with women.

I search around online and found you guys and eventually got 21 Ways. I listened to everything over and over for three days.

That week I woke up, put on a nice outfit and was brimming with confidence.

I made eye-contact with everyone I saw and felt great and people could tell by how I was smiling and carrying myself. I could feel people viewing me in a new way.

I was waiting in a cafe before class and made eye contact and playful facial expressions with everyone (about a weird guy who seemed drunk at 9am) especially with this one girl.

I recognized her as one of the girls on campus that every guy knew because she was that incredibly hot.

I didn’t think twice about it and just went through the day doing what I was doing. I felt great! The next night I saw that hot girl at a bar.

She seemed to be all over my radar, trying to get me to notice her. Finally, she got a mutual friend to introduce us and we had a nice, fun conversation. She was chasing me!

When I could tell things were getting really interesting I said, “It’s been nice talking to you. I’m gonna go get back to my friends and get a drink.”

She was shocked!

So, I saw her later on and got her number and she came home with me that same night.

For me that was shocking. It was like a shock to my system. I realized that I could have been like that with girls all along.

Now I get it why my friends where getting tons of girls and I wasn’t.

You guys rock – thanks for everything. John”

“I’ve always been very chatty, funny and a bit of an extrovert, so no issues there but I NEVER knew how to flirt.

I’d always chat to girls and never get anywhere because the convos would feel boring and too nice really.

Within 2 weeks of me listening to 21 ways I was able to introduce flirting and ended up sleeping with a seriously sexy girl last weekend.

This is only the beginning and I’m starting to view rejection differently as well, no more despair – more like let’s try again!! Gary”

“Hi Dan, now I know what I was doing wrong all this time.

I was too nice. That didn’t get me anywhere and made me feel very reluctant and even afraid to approach women.

Now that I’m using what I learned from you guys I feel much more confident in approaching even top class women.

The first time I tried out the bookstore method I got a number and am working on getting lots more.

She was more pretty than a woman I would normally approach so that felt like a huge achievement to me.

I do feel a bit nervous about calling her but I will I promise.

I’ve just got to work up the courage to do it so I will probably listen to the program again tonight.

Also I wanted to say that the examples you guys provide are amazing…it really helps now that I have things to say to women when I meet them in random situations. Very happy customer. Chris”

“I was at a movie theater with my friend John recently.

We saw some girls and I was able to walk up to them, start a conversation and it just so happened we were going to the same movie. Perfect I know.

Hung out with them after the movie and was able to take them back to my place for some wine and some clean fun.

This has been the best investment I have ever made and have never been happier or more optimistic about my life and my future with women. Bill”

“Before I got 21 Ways, I wasn’t very good socially.

I would always let other people take the lead in social situations, and later when they would be with the girl, I’d fing myself sitting in the background.

Now I understand how I should treat girls and how make them laugh, lead them, etc. And my social and dating life have picked up to the point where I’ve slept with a good amount of women and it is fun (not difficult or scary) to approach and meet women now.

I’ve also made a heap of new friends now that I’m getting invited to parties. This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around. Thanks guys! Was a real treat to listen to the program. It was quite funny in some parts too. You guys are great to listen to. Jack”

“Hey Dan!

Alright your program can work miracles!

For the past four years I have been in a relationship and recently my ex broke up with me.

I was devastated and even more so as I went through your program and realized where I went wrong being so desperate, needy, weak, etc.

I have really taken all of your programs to heart and am going full on with them because I do not want to be like I have been for the past four years.

Okay, so today was huge. I followed the advice in 21 great ways to get a girlfriend and I went to the mall and talked to a number of girls.

I then went out Salsa dancing tonight and applied all of the good stuff I learned in the flow, alpha male power, and better than a bad boy.

I met this waaaay hot girl (I mean in the past I would have been completely intimidated by her) and taking her through the flow by the end I had her giving me her number!

She is attracted to me in a way that I have never felt in that I feel like I’m coming from a place of strength now and she can feel that.

You’re right, Dan, when you say you may not even be thinking of your ex say if you have other way more attractive women in your life.

Thanks for this life changing program. It has helped me in one of the most difficult and yet strangely rewarding times in my life. Rudy”

“I’ve only had this program for a week and I’ve already gotten 2 phone numbers. For me that’s a lot because I’ve always been to shy to meet women (especially during the day).

Using your conversation examples, I met one girl when I was buying some lunch during my break and another on the train home from work, despite the train being absolutely chock-a-block full.

I didn’t care. I just started talking to her, flirting and she loved it.

It was a bit weird at first because heck – who talks to anyone else on a train – but we found ourselves in chatting in our own little world.

Everyone else just kind of disappeared and didn’t matter.

It was an eye opening experience for me to say the least, as well as exciting and confidence boosting.

I’ve decided to date both of the women I’ve met and then work out which one I like best.

I can’t thank you guys enough. This stuff works and I’m glad I found you. I was starting to lose hope especially getting nowhere on the apps. José”

“When I found your audio program I thought “Okay here’s something to take me in the right direction”.

I’m not interested in just sleeping with girls, so now I have a girlfriend of 2 weeks and she is absolutely stunning.

Best girl I have ever met, and I can be myself around her and be confident in such a way that I think this relationship is really going somewhere good. Will”

“I’ve always wanted to know how to get those hot girls walking around and shopping at the malls, as well as the ones who work in the stores.

Well, after going to your program, I really listened to what you guys said and followed the steps and get this – I got FOUR phone numbers in TWO hours.

2 of the girls were hotties (one in a clothing store and another in a jewelry store, even though I don’t even wear jewelry or want any), and the other two I met in the food court.

So as you can imagine – I am absolutely over the moon with this!

To date in my life, I have NEVER been with a hot girl. Always average or ugly.

Now, I have FOUR numbers…FOUR girls to choose from from just one day of giving it a shot.

This is insane and my friends are have been like bro – what happened to you? Lol.

I will be buying more of your programs for sure. PK”

“I met a woman who was listed in the top ten in an online dating site just using the ideas from the online dating section in your program.

She actually said she was really anticipating my visit and we ended up spending the day together. Kevin”

“I have vastly improved both my friendships with women and my romantic relationships as well.

Now when I find a woman I am interested in and I know she is single, I know I can get her. Justin”

“Since listening to your audio training I’ve gotten phone numbers from 3 girls during the day.

One in a mall, another who is a a waitress in a cafe near my work and the other when I was waiting in line at a big brand juice bar.

I honestly can’t believe how easy it has been…seriously, it’s like I’m living in a completely different world, where girls aren’t scary to me anymore.

Seriously man, approaching women during the day was practically a nightmare experience for me before due to nerves and fears.

It’s freaking easy now and I just don’t feel afraid. I feel alive.

You guys deserve a medal or something for what you do. Big ups to y’all. Lance”

“Not only have I got a date lined up with a beautiful Russian girl this week, but I’ve also made a bunch of new friends by going through bits of the 30 day challenge.

My sister commented the other day that I seem so confident these days and asked me where I was meeting all the women I had been telling her about. My reply? Everywhere! Ethan”

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